Would a real Gorean harm a girl?

Questions concerning what a girl is to do if she feels she is in danger are often left unanswered. The response would be that a “real Gorean would never harm a girl”. The rationale behind this is a complete nonsense. If they wish to argue that they follow the philosophy of the books, then certainly a *real* Gorean certainly would harm a girl, even unto permanent maiming and death. What they mean is that according to the rules made up online none that they call Gorean would harm a girl.

This puts a girl into a catch 22 situation. She is told that she must never judge who is and who is not Gorean, and she is told that she must always obey Free People, but she is given mixed signals that she may ignore a HNG. (Horny Net Geek) So what is a girl to do? If she disobeys an order she risks being ostracised If she always obeys, she could risk her safety. It is a no win situation and a lot depends on luck. However, that’s OK. She would have been warned that she is involving herself in an adult and dangerous lifestyle, and there are risks involved with this.