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... KAJIRA ...
based on the writings of terril{KLN}

to know you are subject to whims, moods, rules that change.

to know that although you may be given an explanation or a reason... you deserve none.

to know that although you may not know why you are being punished, you understand it is right by the simple fact He/She chooses to do it.

to understand you have not even the right to speak or move unless One grants it, and that One may choose not to simply because it is what pleases Him/Her.

to know that even when you have been told one thing is law... you may be punished for doing it because Another prefers a different way.

to know that though you may be asked for your opinion, you understand it may or may not be taken into account, whether this pertains to your sale, your task assignment, your name or even your life.

to know that each time... no matter how deeply you feel you had done no wrong... you will be grateful for the lesson and accept its consequences.

to NEVER utter the words "but a girl was told..." to try to justify or explain your actions.. Because you understand that the FREE are never wrong unless They say so Themselves.

to know that when Two give you commands that are opposite on ways to do things, you will bite your tongue and let Them discuss and argue until They have decided between Themselves what is the way it will be.

to know that if They do not agree, you will remember each's preference and eagerly comply.

to be grateful for any praise received but expect none.

to never think your whining and complaints are of any importance to anyone and to refrain from distributing them around.

to know that the words "I am pleased" have become the light in your life and the reason for your every breath.

Above all, it means that all of those things will be more than words recited... than lines learned... that have become, by the kiss of the whip, by the undeniable need of your body and soul, by the fear of death, by the knowledge that your very life is at the mercy of men, always and in all things, your reality. More than imposed reality, these truths, deep in the core of the slave girl, are brought to surface from the depth of her nature. from the biological make up of the female she is. And if at first she fights and struggles and denies, there remain the moments when her worse fear is simply, that she will be given victory and that the Mastering she so deeply craves and needs will give way to a weakness so typical of Earth's destruction of masculinity and the natural order of things.

"But what if he is weak?" she begged.
"Continue to serve him, in the fullness of your slavery, begging him for the least of his kisses, the most casual of his caresses...Even such small attentions, you will discover, now that you have become sensitized to your slavery, will be precious to you."
"But what if he is stupid?" she asked.
"Beg him to sell you, or give you away," I said, "that you may, if only in being sold off on the block, come into the collar of another, one capable of satisfying what you are, a slave."
"But what if he will not sell me, or give me away?" she said.
"Then," said I angrily,"that is how it will be, for it is you who wear the collar. He is the master. You are the slave."
---Magicians of Gor, pp 233-234

Attitude ...
A slave's purpose is to serve men, to please them in all ways, to obey there merest command, swiftly and completely. The sooner a girl understands these things, the sooner she will find her place in the order of things, and learn the joy in them. Unfortunately, or perhaps naturally, many keep the illusion that in beauty and in the desires of men, lays a power that will allow them manipulation of their Masters. She will know quickly, that the strong man will only see in those attributes, reason to treat her more harshly. There is, on Gor, no "chosen" submission, no "gift" of submission, there is only its reality.

`The life of a female slave,' he said, `is a life wholly given over to love. It is not a compromised life. It is not one of those lives which is part this, and part that. It is a total way of life, a total life... There are no bargains made with her, no arrangements.'
---Mercenaries of Gor, p 435

The Gorean slave will, whether she chooses to or not, be made to yield to Master's will. The fact that this brings her joy never means she does it by choice. The only 'choice' a kajira has is to accept her fate or to complicate it by fighting it. She must never forget that her status is nil, that her rights are nil, and that she is in effect, by law and by nature, an article of property.

"I supposed I was a wicked, worthless woman and, far worse, only a despicable natural slave, but something deep in me, fundamental in me, proud and ancient in me, loved men, and I did not want to make them small, and nothing, but wanted, rather, to please them, to obey them, to serve them, to give my all to them, to make them strong and proud, grand and glorious, to make them happy. But here, among the virile men of Gor, I had little choice in such matters. such things, regardless of whether or not I might wish to bestow them of my own free will, would be simply commanded of me."
---Dancer of Gor, p 75

Intelligence ...
If you are of those who thinks that to be slave requires only the ability to do what one is told, you need look again or move along. The Gorean expects complete obedience from his slave, that is true, he does however, not wish for her to be an empty shell, or a duplicate of another slave. If a girl is expected to obey without question at the moment of a command, it is not to say that she doesn't think or have questions. Obedience and intelligence are not incompatible and must simply be placed within the duality of the kajira's life. On one hand, she must show utmost compliance and never publicly question or argue a command, on the other, she must understand why she does things if she hopes ever to be able to do them with the natural grace that is hers.

"The intelligence and sensitivity of many women actually tends to blossom in bondage, finding within it the apt environment for its expression, for its flowering. This may have to do with such matters as the release of inhibitions, happiness, fulfillment, and such."
---Magicians of Gor, p 194

A girl who knows... who feels... what it is she does in the smallest tasks and gestures of her service, is likely to be more pleasant to watch than one who mechanically performs tasks she does not understand.

"Verna, I said, is strong willed. She is extremely proud, extremely intelligent.  Excellent, said Marlenus.  Such women, said Marlenus, once conquered, make the most abject and superb slaves.  I have heard this, I said.  Incidentally, brilliant and imaginative women, particularly if beautiful and high born, are avidly sought in Gorean slave markets. High intelligence and imagination, perhaps interestingly from the point of view of a man of Earth, are highly prized in women by Gorean men.

Indeed, a woman who is known to be intelligent and imaginative will bring a much higher price than some duller, but more beautiful, sister in bondage. Goreans, unlike many men of Earth, have very little interest in stupid women. The ideal candidate for Gorean slaver's snare is a highly intelligent, beautiful, imaginative woman, one who is strong willed, proud, and free. It is such women that Goreans enjoy making slaves. Perhaps surprisingly, once conquered, once they have learned their brand, once they have learned their collar and silk, they make the most helpless, the most incredibly delicious slaves."
---Hunters of Gor

Discipline and Punishment...
There is, on Gor, no reason needed to punish a slave. If it is unusual for a Master to be cruel, there are many reasons a slave will be punished that the non Gorean will not understand at first. Too, be aware that these punishments may seem, at first, unusually harsh to you. The Gorean slave is subject to rules that leave little space for error, and of course, as she has no rights, anything may be done to her, be it to punish, train, or merely to enforce upon her the depth of her bondage. The whip for example, is not always used to punish, in many situations a Master will feel it is time to let His girl feel the kiss of the whip to remind her that she is slave.

"`What do you think should be her punishment ?' asked Callimachus of me. `If she is guilty,' I said, `whatever you wish, as she is a slave.' This was in full accord with Gorean law. Indeed, anything, for whatever reason, or without a reason, may be done to a slave."
---Guardsman of Gor, p 115

In most of the online Gorean community, a slave may be punished only by her Master when in her home. There are to this exception and a girl should inform herself of what they are.

She will understand though that if any Free chooses to punish her, it is not up to her to state the rules, she, as always, will obey.

Be forewarned as well, that the rules of your home have no bearing on what may be done to you outside of this home. If a girl finds herself in anothother place, she will be subject to the whim of any there. In NO SITUATION is it acceptable for a girl to run away from her actions.

"Any free man may discipline an insolent or errant slave, I said, even one who is the least bit displeasing, even one he might merely feel like disciplining. If she is killed, or injured, he need only pay compensation to her master, and that only if the master can be located within a specific amount of time and requests such compensation.  In virtue of such customs and statutes the perfect discipline under which Gorean slaves are kept is maintained and guaranteed even when they are not within the direct purview of their masters or their appointed agents."
----Players of Gor, p 235

Whether or not a girl thinks she has done wrong is irrelevant, whether or not a girl thinks the Free who wants to apply the punishment has that right or not is irrelevant, she is always to defer this judgment to her Master or Mistress, and to accept her fate in the meantime.

"The discipline of a slave may be attended to by any free person, otherwise she might do much what she wished, provided only her Master did not learn of it. The legal principle is clear, and has been upheld in several courts, in several cities, including Ar."
---Magicians of Gor, p 122

"You cannot punish me! she cried.  You are not my masters!  Any free person can punish an errant slave girl, I said.  Surely you do not think that her behavior fails to be subject to supervision and correction as soon as she is out of her Master's sight?"
----Magician of Gor, p 225

"When one who is a slave strikes a free person the penalty is not infrequently death by impalement, preceded by lengthy torture."
---Assassin of Gor, p 74

"In most cities, even the touching of money, unless in an authorized situation, is prohibited to slaves."
---Dancer of Gor, p 238

Duties ...

"The absolute truth must be spoken to a Gorean master. It is forbidden to a girl to hide her feelings"
---Captive of Gor, p 346

"A slave girl is not permitted to conceal anything from her master. She is his. She must be completely open to him, in all ways, and at all times."
---Hunters of Gor, p 84

"What is the duty of a slave girl' I inquired. 'Absolute obedience' she said, frightened. 'What are you?' I inquired. 'A slave girl,' she said. 'What is your duty?' I asked. 'Absolute obedience,' she cried out."
---Hunters of Gor, p 258

"I looked down upon her. 'You are a wanton slave,' I said. She looked up at me laughing, 'A girl in a collar is not permitted inhibitions,' she said. It was true, slave girls must reveal their sexual nature, totally. Do they not do so , they are beaten."
---Marauders of Gor, p 278

"It is common,' I said, `for a slave to request permission to speak.' 'Forgive me, Masters!' she wept. 'You are men! You are men! A slave begs forgiveness!"
---Magicians of Gor, p 226

"One of the utilities of a slave, of course, is to occasionally serve as the helpless object upon which the Master may vent his dissatisfaction, his frustration or anger. Too, of course, they may serve many other related purposes, such as the relief of tensions, to relax oneself and even to calm oneself for clear thought."
---Magicians of Gor, p 134

A girl and her home...
As stated before, one of the few choices a slave has, is that of which room she enters and settles in. Once a girl has been collared to the fortress, or to a Master of the fortress, this becomes her home.

It is a girl's duty to make this home a place that others will come to. The world of online Gor is vast and diversified, a home where noone speaks or moves isn't likely to be one that will draw newcomers. The fact that the fortress is empty should never be a reason for a girl not to go there, or stay there when she can. She needs to remember she is not a visitor, but property of this home... a girl who "chooses" to come home only when her master is there, crawls all over Him for attention then swiftly disappears as soon as He does, may as well be in any other chatroom. It is true that a girl's home is with her Master... but if her Master has chosen the fortress as His Home, a girl would do well to remember that her actions and behavior reflect on the quality of His choice of girl.

The same applies to fortress slaves, consider... that if you are seen as one who "chooses" who she serves and when, your understanding of slavery will be questioned and that this will make owning you a rather poor attraction. The collar you wear ties you to the well being of your home and Master(s)/Mistress(es), this includes giving all that you have to make your home grow.

Being home alone is an opportunity to catch up with chores, practice dances, bathe and a multitude of other things... if those who are bound to a home do not spend time in it... who will?

Restriction ... and the sharing of slaves
What a slave may or may not do, who she may or may not serve and to what extent, where she may or may not go and when, is always up to her Owner. As much as some would like to make fusses about how not sharing your slave is unGorean... or how every girl should always be useable by any Man... the truth is that no matter what silk tag a girl wears, no matter if she is pleasure slave by training, dancer, or plain mat slave, the use of a girl, so long as she isnt wandering to unknown territories, is the sole decision of her owner. Many places have set up this "badge" system to advertise who may and may not be shared... i suppose to each their own ~s~ it remains unnecessary as the books do show us many times. Men didn't walk into the homes of their hosts and grab a girl without either being offered her use, or having requested it.

Clearly, the definition ans symbolism of the collar gives us something to think on...

"The girls are usually branded impersonally, perfunctorily, as cattle. Though they feel the mark intensely physically, it is felt, interestingly, even more intensely, more profoundly, psychologically; not unoften it, in itself, radically transforms their self images, their personalities; they are only slaves, not permitted their own wills, rightless, at the bidding of masters; the mark is an impersonal designation; this is understood by the girls; when she is marked she understands herself not to be marked by a given man for a given man, to be uniquely his, but rather, so to speak, that she is marked for all men; to all men she is a slave girl; usually, of course, only one among them, at a given time, will be her master; the brand is impersonal; the brand marks her property; the brand is impersonal; the collar is intensely personal; the brand marks her property; the collar proclaims whose property she is, who it is who has actually taken, or paid for, her; that the brand is an impersonal designation of absence of status in the social structure is perhaps another reason why masters do not often brand their own girls; the brand relationship to the free man is institutional; the collar relationship on the other hand is an intensely personal one."
---Tribesmen of Gor, p 42

If you are State property, the men of the State will set upon you the extent of your use and who this extends to. Owned slaves will of course follow their Master's commands. Note that silk color is not necessarily the guideline for limitation and restriction. It is ridiculous for a girl to think she will not be shared, this remains the right of her Master.

"I suddenly hated being a slave! Was this possible? That I should be so casually put, in the liberality of a Gorean host, at the disposal of guests? But of course it was possible! I was only a slave! But why would he do this to me, to me? Was I truly to him only this, only another slave, to be put without a second thought to the purposes of guests, merely another amenity or convenience to them, as night be a napkin or finger bowl, or a comfort, such as a blanket, or and extra cushion for his couch."
---Dancer of Gor, p 430

"In a dinner given for his rowdy male companions, of course, in which even unmixed wines might be served, she, obedient, writhing and sensuous, is quite a different girl. Perhaps he has even purchased her some training, from local slave masters. His guests, uncontrolled in their desire, driven half mad with passion, will mightily envy him his girl. Perhaps he, in Gorean hospitality, will share her with them, but, in the end, when they have gone, it is at the foot of his own couch that she, licking and kissing, and begging, will be chained."
---Guardsman of Gor, p 106

AND IT IS JUST AS RIDICULOUS TO ASSUME all girls will be shared, or to deem unGorean the fact that a man refuses to share His slave. If it is widely known that the white silk tag applies to virgins and hence forbids use, the mere fact that you wear yellow or red silks makes you not available to All and Any, it is your collar that restricts you, the Owner of a slave has ALL rights to deciding who makes use of the slave.

"These girls may be exchanged among the men, but commonly they are not. Most masters are rather possessive about their slaves, particularly if they are fond of them."
---Guardsman of Gor, p 209

"Although Marcus was harsh with his slave, pretending even to a casual and brutal disdain for her, he was also, it might be mentioned, extremely possessive where she was concerned. Indeed, he was almost insanely jealous of her, She was not the sort of girl, for example, whom he, as a host, even at the cost of a certain rudeness and inhospitality, would be likely to hand over for the nightly comfort of a guest. It would be at his slave ring alone that she would be likely to find herself chained."
---Magicians of Gor, p 27

Travel ...

Fortress slaves of the fortress do not wander Gor alone. Personally owned slaves will be expected to know Their Owner's law and refrain from traveling if this law has not been stated.

Remember above all, by traveling without your Master, you place yourself in a position where His control of what may or may not happen to you is left to the whim and pleasure of others. If you are not to serve anywhere but home, visiting anywhere may very well place you in a situation where no matter what you do, you will be disobeying. Your attitude, your words and your actions, will be held up as evidence of the training you have received, do not think lightly of how others will look at you.

Rights? ...

"`In the eyes of Gorean law you are an animal. You have no name in your own right. You may be collared and leashed. You may be bought and sold, whipped, treated as the master pleases, disposed of as he sees fit. You have no rights whatsoever. Legally you have no more status than a tarsk or vulo. Legally, literally, you are an animal.'"
---Explorers of Gor, p 316.

"Several weeks ago in Ar there had been some attempts upon the part of the Ubarate, as a social-control procedure, to facilitate its governance, a venture doubtless emanating from Cos, which had reason to fear an alert, healthy foe, to reduce the vitality and virility of the men of Ar, to further crush and depress them...

This was to be followed by legislation encouraging, and then apparently to later require, more modest garmenture for slaves.

There were even suggestions of attempting to regulate the relationships obtaining between Masters and slaves.

There was some talk of greater 'respect' for slaves, that they might be permitted to drink from the higher bowls at the public fountains, even the insanity that one might not be able to make use of them without their permission, thus turning the Master into a slave's slave...

On the other hand the first straws testing the winds of Ar, cast in the streets, in the baths, in the taverns and markets, had been blown back with such fierceness that these castrative proposals had been immediately withdrawn...

Revolution, I do not doubt, would have occurred in the city. The men of Ar would have died rather than give up at least the retained semblance of their manhood."
---Magicians of Gor, p 211

uncollarings and runaways ...

"The slave cannot free herself. She can be freed only by an owner. The condition of slavery does not require the collar, or the brand, or an anklet, bracelet or ring, or any such overt sign of bondage. Such things, as symbolic as they are, as profoundly meaningful as they are, and as useful as they are for marking properties, identifying masters, and such, are not necessary to slavery.

They are, in effect, though their affixing can legally effect imbondment, ultimately, in themselves, tokens of bondage, and are not to be confused with the reality itself. The uncollared slave is not then a free woman but only a slave who is not then in a collar.

Similarly a slave is still a slave even if her brand could be made to magically disappear or, if she has been made a slave in some other way, if she has not yet been branded. Indeed, some masters, somewhat foolishly, I think, dally in the branding of their slaves. Indeed, some, perhaps the most foolish, do not brand them at all. Such girls, however, when they come into the keeping of new masters, usually discover that oversight is promptly remedied."
---Renegades of Gor, p 273

"Theft or capture, if you prefer, conferred rights over me. I would belong to, and must fully serve, anyone into whose effective possession I came, even if it had been by theft. The original master, of course, has the right to try to recover his property, which remains technically his for a period of one week. If I were to flee the thief, however, after he has consolidated his hold on me, for example kept me for even a night, I could, actually in Gorean law, be counted as a runaway slave, from him, even though he did not technically own me yet, and punished accordingly."
---Dancer of Gor, p 95

   

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