Personal Bill of Rights
- I have a right to all those good times that I have longed for all
these years and didn't get.
- I have a right to joy in this life, right here, right now - not just
a momentary rush of euphoria but something more substantial.
- I have a right to relax and have fun.
- I have a right to actively pursue people, places, and
situations that will help me in achieving a good life.
- I have a right to say no whenever I feel something is not
safe or I am not ready.
- I have a right to take calculated risks and to experiment
with new strategies.
- I have a right to change my tune, my strategy, and my funny
equations.
- I have a right to mess up: to make mistakes, to blow it, to
disappoint myself, and to fall short of the mark.
- I have a right to put an end to conversations with people
who make me feel put down and humiliated.
- I have a right to all my feelings.
- I have a right to trust my feelings, my judgment, my hunches,
my intuition.
- I have a right to develop myself as a whole person emotionally,
spiritually, mentally, physically, and psychologically.
- I have a right to express all my feelings in a non-destructive way
and a safe time and place.
- I have a right to as much time as I need to experiment with
this new information and these new ideas and to initiate changes
in my life.
- I have a right to sort out the bill of goods my parents sold
me -- to take the acceptable and dump the unacceptable.
- I have a right to a mentally healthy, sane way of existence,
though it will deviate in part, or all, from my parents prescribed
philosophy of life.
- I have a right to follow any of the above rights, to live my
life the way I want to!
- I have a right to be me - myself - and not have to appologize
to anyone for who I am.
This list was sent to me by a very dear friend. The last item I
added myself.
I hope you read it and try to beleive it.
I know that it's not always easy...
but these rights are real...
and they belong to all of us!
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