If you buy a handfed domestic parrot, it should already be tame, and will stay that way as long as you give him sufficient attention. However, it is important that every new parrot owner learn the proper techniques for handling parrots, as improper handling can send very mixed messages to your bird.
When you are attempting to handle a tame parrot for the first time, you should talk softly to the bird and move slowly, for all parrots, even tame handfed babies, are sometimes timid and shy around unfamiliar people. The most common mistake I see the would-be parrot owner make, is to hold their hand about a foot in front of the bird and expect it to hop right on. This is usually because the novice is somewhat intimidated or afraid of being bit, and they are being far too cautious. When a hand is placed out of reach for the parrot, the parrot will reach for the hand with his beak to pull it closer, or to try to grab on and reach it so he can perch on it. Keep in mind that parrots use their beak as a "third" foot to help them climb. The novice handler will mistake this action for aggression and quickly pull the hand away, confusing the bird even more. The proper method is to slowly and deliberately place your hand against the birds abdomen or chest and give the "up" command. Do not show any fear or intimidation, as the birds will quickly pick up on this. With a reluctant bird, is often necessary to push slightly against his chest, throwing him slightly off-balance, and he will then step right on your hand. If you hold your hand too far away from the bird, and consistently jerk your hand away, the bird will have no idea what you want and will think you are teasing him (and he may bite you for real). If the bird does actually try to bite, tell him "NO" firmly, talk a while longer and attempt it again. You should never, ever strike a bird! They will always respond positively to kindness, patience, consistency and understanding, and negatively to violence and fear.
If the bird attempts to bite or chew on your hand once he's perching on it, respond with a firm "NO", and tilt your hand slightly. This will throw him off balance and he will stop. If you consistently do this, the bird will learn that his perch (your hand) always seems to move when he bites or chews on it. If you have a young baby that is "teething" (exploring with his beak), give him a toy to chew on. Even if it doesn't hurt, never allow your baby to "teeth" on your fingers, or he will assume this is acceptable behavior. As he gets older the "teething" will get harder, and then he won't understand your tolerance change. Remember, to be consistent when working with a new bird, so you don't send mixed signals. If you follow these suggestions, you should have no trouble in handling your baby parrot.
There are many ways to teach your birds tricks and how to talk, and I will not go into that here. Just remember - kindness, patience and consistency always pays off. I do recommend that you subscribe to a good bird magazine, such as "Bird Talk", and it will give you many ideas in this regard. You should learn how to teach your bird basic commands, such as "Up" when you want him to step on your hand and "Down" when you want him to get off.
I also recommend that you keep your pet bird's wings clipped, not only to prevent escape, but to enable you to have complete control over your bird. Often if a birds wings are allowed to grow out, he will become harder to handle, flying all over the house, and even biting if you try to handle him (develop an attitude problem, so to speak). Birds should be taught to stay put for their own safety, as well as your own emotional well-being. If your bird should start to develop this "attitude problem", don't worry - a proper wing-clipping will give them just the "attitude adjustment" they need! Although some birds still don't seem to ever fly even after their wings have grown out, be very cautious. Something could frighten them, sending them crashing into a wall or out the door. A tame bird loose outside will be disoriented and unable to find his way home, so make every effort to avoid this mishap. You should also keep his toenails trimmed as needed to make handling your pet more comfortable for you, and prevent his nails from becoming overgrown. Your veterinarian, pet stores experienced with birds and local bird clubs can assist you with clipping wings and toenails, and you should have an experienced bird handler teach you to do this properly before attempting it yourself.
Also, if your baby bird should start to develop any bad habits such as frequent biting, constant screaming or feather-plucking, please consult the breeder or an individual experienced at working with these parrot problems before they become too severe. Often the solution is very simple if dealt with early.
Get your own Free Home Page