Our Trip
December
2, 2001 - Day Fifteen: Paperwork
click HERE for Day Fifteen Photos
Question
for Ms. Foster's Classroom: Have your parents taught you any
handicrafts that are a part of their family - like knitting, crocheting,
beadwork, or painting?
Paige's
comments:
Greetings
from room 1252 of the China Hotel in Goungzhou. It's 4:30 Sunday
afternoon and I am in charge of Sophia for the next four hours while
Ann has a documents meeting with our agency rep, and then has some
quality time with a massage in the spa. Four hours is daunting.
In fact, this might be the longest I've ever been alone with a child.
But so far I'm handling it well and there haven't been any, oh,
wait
Sophia! Put down the curling iron. Okay. Good girl. As
I was saying, everything is going great and she's playing with an
assortment of toys on the floor while I pound this out.
This
morning we hit (another) folk art museum. I was tempted to ask if
they had a velvet Mao, or a portrait of Chaing Kai Chek playing
cards with dogs, but I figured I'd already pushed my luck enough
on this trip. We got back here by 1 p.m. and had a great lunch in
one of this hotels restaurants. While some of the other families
are playing it safe and sticking with American-ized food, we figure
that this will be our last chance for awhile to get real Chinese
food, so we're making the most of every opportunity. Some of the
more interesting menu items included pickled pork intestines and
braised ox tail soup, but we stuck with stuff we knew we could handle.
As usual Sophia drew quite the crowd.
After
lunch I hit the fitness club to try and shed the 15 or so pounds
I feel like I've put on on this trip. A fantastic fitness club with
an olympic-sized pool on the fourth floor terrace. For Goungzhou,
the weather (80 with a maybe 95 degree humidity) is chilly, so the
only people at the pool were foreigners. I hit the steam room, sweated
out some Tsing Tao, and got back to the room in time for Ann to
do the meeting.
The
agency has been really smart and is breaking up our days with half
tourism and half bureaucracy. We got all the Chinese paperwork out
of the way in Nanjing and Sophia now is the proud owner of a Chinese
passport under her given name Chang Xin Ju. In Goungzhou, we're
doing all the American stuff. One person from each couple is now
downstairs with all of the notarized papers, forms, copies of tickets,
visas, tax returns
basically the whole shebang that we all
lugged over. After the document signing party, Ann's going to treat
herself to a 45-minute massage in the spa. This is an amazing hotel.
Like the Bellagio in Vegas. And we're going to soak up the opulence
for as long as we can. (FYI: the massage costs about $25. Beat that.)
A couple
of unusual observations:
·
When we were at the orphanage in Changzhou on Monday, we were told
that there was another American family that was going to be there
in about an hour. We missed them but met him (his wife is with the
other three kids back in Massachusetts) the next day in the Hilton.
We ended up running into Richard and Mave (his new two and a half
year-old daughter) at just about every meal. And then on the street.
And then at the airport. And then at a store in Goungzhou, last
night at the Hard Rock, and today at another store. It's getting
humorous. But it only makes sense: in a city of 8.6 million people
it's logical that you'd constantly bump into the same people over
and over. I kind of expect to run into an ex-girlfriend or two.
·
The other two hotels had hot water pots that plugged in for instant
coffee and tea. Kind of like those little three-cup coffee makers
you see in every motel in America. Not at the China Hotel. When
you need hot water, you dial 64 and your friendly floor attendant
delivers a thermos bottle of approximately 10,000 degree water in
about 90 seconds. The water actually stays hot for most of a day.
·
Like any international hotel, you'll always have some eclectic characters.
This morning at breakfast we were seated next to the Punk Rock King
of China. ("Chang Viscious"?) He looked like he should
be in an MTV video from 1982. His wife/girlfriend had an affected
Yoko Ono thing happening. With them were two Eastern Bloc supermodels.
Like I said, this ain't the Americinn in Forest Lake.
Ann's
comments:
Today
we went to a folk art museum and a porcelin factory. The folk art
museum had more contemporary folk art versus the very old fine art
and folk art work we saw in Nanjing. There were a lot of tour buses
of older Chinese women and men enjoying the work. Like the other
museum, there was a lot of talking and laughter - not the quiet
that you experience in the U.S. It's a welcome change.
The
work that stood out the most in the museum today were these huge
embroidered pictures. From a distance they look like oil paintings,
but close up you could see the thousands of little stitches with
different shades of embroidery floss. They were amazing. There was
another section that had huge pieces of work all done in beads.
Taken out of context, they may seem kind of kitchy, but if you looked
at the amount of work and detail that went into each piece - and
remember this is all done by hand - it is amazing.
The
other place we went to was the porcelin factory. The neat thing
about the factories/stores here is that artists are often working
right along side the work that is for sale so that you can see that
a machine isn't generating the work. There was an artist who was
painting very detailed images on vases. They were beautiful.
Upstairs
there was a hand painter. I've never seen this done so I watched
this artist for a while. He used his palms that he tapped in black
ink and made incredible nature prints - mostly of water, mountains,
and clouds. The trees were done by a combination of his palms and
fingernails. He doesn't use any brushes. This was one of the most
fascinating things I've ever seen.
We
came back to the hotel and ate at the Chinese restaurant here. It
was really good. Had fried rice and mixed vegetables. Paige had
something with chicken which he didn't like - it had long translucent
noodles in it, almost like a soup. Sophia ate some of my fried rice
and vegetables.
Came
back upstairs and Paige left for a while to workout. Sophia needed
a nap so I pulled the curtains. The minute I did that she let out
her normal wail. She really doesn't to take naps, but she needs
one so she can stay up for the rest of day. Laid down on the blanket
on the floor next to her. She tried to play for awhile, but quickly
wound down. She crawled over to me and then half-way over me so
her head was on the ground and her stomach was on my neck/chest.
She slept that way for 1 ½ hours - until Paige got back and
was able to lift her off without waking her.
Went
to the 14th floor with the other couples to do paperwork for the
American Consulate. What could have taken an hour ended up running
from 3:30 until 6:00 because people had a lot of questions even
though Amy (the ACAA rep) was clearly explaining the answers to
each question; and they forgot documents in their rooms or their
payments. I was progressively getting more sick (terrible sinus/allergy
problems) and had to leave several times to blow my nose and get
medicine. Each time I returned (sometimes 10 minutes later) the
group was still on the same question. A very frustrating pace to
go.
We
put all the documents in clear envelopes for Amy and Leneker to
take to the American Consulate on Monday to process. We go there
Monday afternoon for a special swearing-in ceremony. I thought it
was the adoption day ceremony and had Sophia's special dress ready
to go. Found out that her actual adoption day was November 28, 2001
- in Nanjing when we went to the registry office with John and the
orphanage director. We'll make next year's celebration more special.
Had
the one-hour massage which I needed. Carrying around a baby and
being sick are two good reasons to invest 90 yuan for the massage
and 50 yuan for the tip (less than $20 total!). The massages here
are different from the ones in the U.S. Generally in the U.S. the
room is dark, there's music playing, and the massage is relaxing.
This one the lights were dim, there was no music, and the massage
was more invigorating than relaxing. It was funny because when she
was doing some of the work she made the chops and pounds sound like
music.
So
that's about it. We have a big day tomorrow and I need to get rest.
Have to shake this sinus/allergy thing before we head back.
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