Firm beliefs and flimsy doubts | Some
people seem to believe that beliefs and convictions are
immutable, never-changable, and written in stone. "I
am who I am. I couldn't change my beliefs any more easily
than grow a new finger!". Yet in fact, changing your
beliefs and that of others is surprisingly more simple
than some would you have you believe. NLP has been
called the "structure of subjective
experience". It prefers to examine the
phenomenonalistic process than to start wading around
amonst the content. How the content is represented
internally turns out to be generally much more important
the what the content actually is. It drives the
states that a person is in. The internal experience (the
phenomenalistic field) is grouped into four different
modalities -- one for each of the senses, with taste and
smell grouped together. The modalities are also called
the representational systems. Each of the modalities are
separated in sub-modalities. For instance, some visual
submodalities are size, distance, colour (or black and
white), movement (or lack of), and so on. They are the
dimensions along which we mention the structure of the
internal experience. So, what is a
belief? The simplest way to answer this question is to
find out what the drivers of internal experience
that produce the belief are. We won't be able to say what
a belief is, but we'll be able to add new ones,
change old ones, and even create new beliefs about
beliefs. Work out the submodalities
for a strong belief, and for a doubt (not just a belief
in a negative!). Remember, submodalities are the
differences in how you sense something. So, a belief may
be encoded as a bright image in the upper right of your
vision, and a doubt as a blurred black and white image in
front of you. They may also include the other modalities,
for example an internal voice, with certain tonality.
Keeping the content the same, change the encoding - that
is, the submodalities. So, take something you'd like to
believe but don't yet, see it as bright and up to the
right (if these are the submodalities of your strong
beliefs). You can do the same to destroy a limiting
belief, by doubting it instead. In NLP, you look at the
structure behind communicating powerful change. When
dealing with structures, precision is the mother of
results. If you're not getting the results, be aware that
a great way of learning is to find those who can already
do it effectively - read the books above, or better yet
get to a seminar and open your unconscious to magicians
like Richard Bandler or Michael Breen. (Or just get more
precise by yourself). Hmmm.
Belief change. You'll need: some beliefs, some time, and
a partner can be useful. Do a submodality check between
something you really believe in (I've found "I need
to breathe" effective), something you're wishy-washy
about (should I have strawberry or vanilla, strawberry or
vanilla. Hmm.) and something you really doubt (NOT
something you don't believe, e.g. if you doubt you can
fly, check the subm of you flying, not the subm of a
strong belief that you can't fly). Pay close attention to
location (which is why working with a partner can be
easier). Now take a limiting belief and make it wishy
washy (do the change fast), then a doubt. Then take the
empowering belief and go from doubt to wishy washy to
certainty. Finally, suggest that the unconscious will
continue to generalise similarly useful beliefs in other
areas of your life. Test (not
just check submodalities, but real out-there-in-the-world
testing)! Test the belief, and the implications of the
belief. For example, if you really believe learning is
now fun, then you'll be looking forward to it more
(belief), or at least you'll be smiling more and enjoying
it more (implications). If you believe you can now learn
twice as fast as before, do you unconsciously and
automatically assume less time for learning when planning
something (belief)? Can you learn twice as fast as before
(implications)? Initial
test beliefs to make strong: "I can do belief
changes easily", "I'm lucky", "I
learn fast and easily", "Whatever I do I have
fun", "I automatically generalise positive
beliefs" etc. In NLP, you look at the
structure behind communicating powerful change. When
dealing with structures, precision is the mother of
results. If you're not getting the results, be aware that
a great way of learning is to find those who can already
do it effectively - read books, or better yet get to a
seminar and open your unconscious to magicians like
Richard Bandler or Michael Breen. (Or just get more
precise by yourself). Anyhow, I'd best be leaving now, |
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How
easy, quickly and simply can you begin to remove limiting
beliefs, and replace them with ones to help enjoy all the
fun, the wonder and the fascination the world has to
offer?
Last updated: 26 September 1997 |
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