ascanitbe17

11a.       We generally tend to blame others. Ever wondered why!
          We, as human beings, know that we've short-comings. But we don't want to accept this truth in front of others (though, to ourselves, we generally do) . Cause we feel that by excepting it in open, we are telling others that we are less efficient/good then them . And we are afraid that this may cause our respect to diminish in their eyes. So, we try to put the blame on others so that they'll lose respect & not us. But we forget that we can escape from others but not from ourselves.

                  We forget that others are also human like us & they are as much liable to make mistakes as we are . And also, the real thing that counts is that we should be respectable in our own eyes (cause we can't hide anything from us & so we'll know if we deserve respect or not) . Its only secondary that we look for our respect in others eyes.

                  So, as long as we are truthful to ourselves, we'll be respecting ourselves & won't find the need to blame anyone as we'll be strong enough to take responsibility for our own actions.