ascanitbe18

12a.           Isn't it ironical that, whenever we do some mistake, we find our family members supporting the society, rather than us. In such situations it is very common to hear one/all of these things - What will people say? / You've spoiled our name? / Now we can't show our face to anyone? / It would've been better if you were not born in our family? - and many of the varients of these ; indicating that they are more concerned about others than us.
                  If family members are the top priority of every person, then why do people support 'The Society' (which doesn't belong to anyone)? Agreed that, to live in a community, we've to follow it's norms; but, is it really right to give the Control of our Lives (& that of our families) to this society. Society includes people like us only, who also want protection & respect & who also make mistakes just like us. Then why do we tend to be afraid of their thinking at times of crisis?
                  When some member of a family does something wrong (or different), why don't we stick with him/her ( our very own beloved & priced person )? When we suffer, society doesn't bother, its these family members only, who take care of us & heal us with their genuine Love.
                  Society has always been & always will point it's finger at us (every chance they get). It'll very easily forget our helpful/positive contribution to it (if applicable). So, why do we keep on trying to please society (by being