express them to ourselves in, as decent a manner, as
we can . Our expression should be such that it should not hurt (or hurt should
be minimal) &/or offend others. Then only others will listen to our ideas
for their worth.
Initially
it may be difficult, getting the right words ; but with lot of careful, monitored
practice, we can gradually learn to express ourselves effectively.
6q. I
think we can't control the 'Origin of Thoughts' ; but we can definitely control
our thoughts. We can know which thoughts have originated in our mind only
when they come to our conscious mind . That is when we'll know, whether the
thoughts are good or bad depending on our criterion for the same .
So,
our control will start from this moment on ; that is , when we are able to
distinguish our thoughts. Now, if we want to stop thinking about something,
we can deliberately & forcefully, stop the thought regarding that matter,
at this point.
I
guess this process amounts to controlling thoughts & thinking in general.