Titus, part 5

"At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life." (Titus 3:3-7, NIV)

In our previous look at Paul's letter to Titus, Paul instructed Titus to tell the churches in Crete to be subject to their earthly rulers and to be humble, gentle and peaceable to all people.  Now the overarching purpose of the letter to Titus is Paul's advise and instruction to Titus regarding the building up of a godly church.  In the first chapter, Paul gives Titus instructions on choosing godly church leaders.  In the second chapter, Paul gives Titus instruction on how to lead the congregation (based on sound doctrine and godly character).  As stated above, Paul expands his instruction on the church's attitude to those in civil leadership and those outside the church.  Again, the overarching reason is the character of a godly church and its witness to the outside world, but Paul gives a further motivation toward a godly witness to the outside world:  we were once in the same boat they are currently in.

There are three common reactions that Christians can have toward those outside the body of believers; two of them are wrong, and the third is correct.  One of the wrong ways to react toward those outside the fellowship is in a condescending and legalistic way.  In other words, unbelievers are viewed as antagonistic toward the fellowship of believers (which many are), and are therefore the enemy.  This is a common attitude of those who want to "take back the culture" for Christianity (as mentioned last time).  Those who oppose the Christian world view and ethic are vilified by Christians in this group.  There is a sense in which people in this group want to remove themselves from the influence of the unbelieving world lest they be defiled.

Now there is nothing wrong with being careful what we expose ourselves to in this world.  We are certainly to be discerning about what we see and hear, and we are not to be conformed to this world.  But this is vastly different than withdrawing from the world.  Paul says as much in his first letter to Corinth:  "I have written you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people--not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat" (1 Corinthians 5:9-11).  The only people we are to shun are those who say they are Christians, yet act immorally; they are to be removed from the fellowship like a cancer before it spreads.

The second wrong way believers act toward the unbelieving world is by being too accepting.  This is the method used by many "seeker-friendly" churches.  They are so concerned about reaching as many people for Christ as they can that they water down the true essence of the gospel in order to not offend anyone.  They do not preach too heavily about personal sin; they do not preach too heavily about eternal damnation; they do not preach to heavily about repentance and personal holiness.  What they do preach about is God loves you; God is desperately seeking to have a relationship with you; God wants to transform you; God unconditionally forgives you; God accepts you as you are; you are special in God's eyes.

Again, there is nothing inherently wrong with the message being preached in "seeker-friendly" churches.  Those things I listed above are Biblical.  However, that is only half the message.  Yes, God loves you; yes, God wants to have a relationship with you; yes, God accepts you as you are.  But, you can only be a true child of God if you accept God's terms of reconciliation which requires acknowledgment of your sins; that your sins offend a holy God; that your sin debt, if left unpaid, warrants eternal damnation in hell; that you must repent of your sins, embrace Jesus in faith and live a life of humble obedience to God's word.  Anything less is not a complete gospel and, according to Paul, is worthy of God's curse (cf. Galatians 1:8).

The third way of reacting to the world of unbelievers, and the correct way, is to passionately strive for their conversion by remembering our past way of life.  In other words, the unbelieving world is not the enemy, nor are they to be unconditionally accepted into the fellowship of believers.  They are to be regarded as the mission field for evangelism.  They are the lost that God weeps over with pity and compassion:  "When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd" (Matthew 9:36).

"At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another."  Paul reminds Titus (and us as well) that at one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived, etc.  Why is it necessary to be reminded of our former state?  Because this remembrance causes us to have a sympathy for those who are lost.  Paul says much the same thing in his letter to the Ephesians:  "As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our sinful nature and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature objects of wrath" (Ephesians 2:1-3).  What were we like before we were saved?  Dead!  Spiritually dead in our sins, enslaved to our lusts, disobedient, completely unmoved by the things of God.

We need to remember that former way of life because that is exactly the same state as the rest of the unbelieving world.  They are where we were.  If we forget that, then we will have a tendency to treat unbelievers as the enemy.  This is precisely the point of Jesus' parable of the unforgiving servant (cf. Matthew 18:21-35).  The closing verse is chilling:  "This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart" (v. 35).  Though the context of the parable is forgiveness, it can be applied in a wider sense to attitudes toward unbelievers.

"But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy."  The first word of this verse is one of the most important words in all of Scripture, "But."  We were once sinners, but now we are saved!  We are where we are because of the grace of God.  By His mercy, we are saved.  We did not earn it, and we cannot maintain it.  He freely bestowed it to us out of His love and kindness.  This is one of the cardinal truths of the Christian faith.  This is a non-negotiable article.  There are those who want to turn Christianity into a works righteousness religion.  These are the hard core legalists who insist on following strict rules of conduct for daily living.  God does not want us to follow rules; not in the sense of earning our salvation.  Christ's death on the cross freed us from all of that nonsense.

"He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life."  How did God save us?  Through the "washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit."  The Holy Spirit is the instrument of salvation.  It is the Holy Spirit who renews the heart of sinful man.  A beautiful passage from the Old Testament illustrates this:

"I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your impurities and from all your idols. I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws" (Ezekiel 36:25-27).

What Paul is talking about when he refers to the "washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit" is the mystery of the new birth.  Jesus, in John's gospel, tells Nicodemus, "I tell you the truth, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again...no one can enter the kingdom of God unless he is born of water and the Spirit" (John 3:3, 5).  God, through the ministry of the Holy Spirit, regenerates the heart of sinful man into a heart that loves and desires to be pleasing and obedient to God.

This saving work of the Holy Spirit was made possible by the atoning work of Jesus Christ.  The atoning work of Christ made is possible for God to pour His mercy on us.  The atoning work of Christ made it possible for the ministry of the Holy Spirit (cf. John 16:7).  Salvation is a "team" effort of all the members of the Trinity:  According to the plan of God the Father; accomplished through the work of God the Son; and applied to the elect by the work of God the Holy Spirit.

Paul closes this section by saying that the purpose of this Trinitarian work was to justify us--i.e., make us right with God--so that we could be joint heirs with Christ of the eternal hope of glory.

In closing, Paul wanted to remind Titus and his fellow believers of the immense mercy of God that was poured out on us, even though we were sinners, so that they (and us, by extension) would look on the unbelieving world in a similar way.  We are to look upon the lost as no different than us save for the grace of God.

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