Although, these two features
sway towards the bonding of a parrot with their
owner, it isn't necessarily
carved in stone. Our son spent a great deal of time with Fluffy
and there isn't anything she wouldn't do for him within her means, but
if given a choice she would still come to me. I would say she
is bonded to both of us on any given day.
Parrots will also
bond with someone who only shares minor time with them, but it is quality
time. Holding and snuggling them while watching TV, scratching
their neck, chatting, singing, or playing together one on one.
These are all ways to sway your parrot in your favor, but remember these
beautiful creatures have what I call a built in mate gauge.
Your mannerism,
the secure way you hold them, your voice, your confidence along with
lack of fear will help in bonding with a parrot. Or at least becoming
good friends.
Bonding with a parrot
doesn't always mean they will be a one person bird. But chances are
much greater they will be. This is why it is very
important to socialize your baby parrots with other members in your household.
Then, as they mature, even though they might bond to a particular family member
they may still socialize with other members (on their terms).
So now we have this beautiful
parrot, its springtime, and she is reaching maturity. The extended
daylight hours of spring brings the natural feelings of mating or more
importantly having babies.
I can always tell
when Fluffy starts playing in her water dish more often. Digging
at her veggies as if knowing her body may need the extra energy.
Along with wanting more attention than usual. These are all pretty
good signs her hormones are kicking up into high gear.
In Fluffy's case
she won't be having babies or even a birdie mate for that matter.
She thinks she is human and refuses to accept another cockatoo as her mate.
Breeding cockatoos under the best of circumstances can sometimes be extremely
dangerous. Or for that matter breeding other parrots as well.
I know of a breeder
who bred goffin cockatoos on a regular basis of twice a year, never experiencing any problems, until one day the male attacked the female almost killing her.
If the breeder was not standing in ear shot the female would most certainly
have been killed.
Fluffy is our pet
and although I've been told she will stay sweet if we let her have a clutch,
I tend to disagree. I've seen many cases where the female not
only rejected the male, but also became nippy with her human flock.
Some might say all these changes
could only frustrate her more, but so far after (11 years) this has worked
best.
One day Fluffy may want to
mate with another cockatoo, but at this point I put in the ear plugs, talk
to her and watch for signs of distress or depression, like pulling feathers
(aggressively), not eating, sleeping more than normal, or sulking in her
cage.
Having parrots for pets is
a wonderful experience, rather they talk or not, they are filled with energy,
personality and love. They do require special needs and it is up
to their human family to make sure they receive them.