Anger Calming Spell

J'Karrah EbonDragon, 1998

A modified version of this spell, was published in a book written by my  friend Lilith McLelland's  The Salem Witches Book of Love Spells.  In the book  this spell can be found on page 79 under the title "Spell to Ease a Family Quarrel"  under the name "Kerowyn SilverDrake"  The spell should be done on a Friday night if possible, or whenever there is need of it.  Formal circle casting is not necessary, but may be performed if you so desire.

Needed Items:

3 light blue (or white) candles (votives are good for this)

3 pieces of light blue (or white) paper

Peace Oil (or olive oil or vanilla extract)

Peace Incense (or vanilla or sandalwood)

A blue ink pen

A fire-proof receptacle (such as an empty jar with a lid)

 

Step 1: Inscribe each candle with 2 of the following runes:

	Nied: To help calm distressed emotions
	Gifu: To restore one's mental equilibrium and perspective
	Beorc: To bring harmony back into the household
	Sigel: To bring healing to all effected
	Kenaz: To renew peace within the family
	Ing: To bring a positive ending to the situation

While carving the candles, be sure to visualize the person who is the object of the spell as being happy, calm and relaxed.  See any problems between the two of you as having already been resolved in a way that promotes growth, mutual respect and understanding (not necessarily agreement which may not be possible... just agreeing to disagree and letting the matter drop).

 

Step 2: Anoint each candle with the Peace Oil, again visualizing the other person and you living in harmony with all quarrels forgiven and forgotten.  As you do so, chant:

Dragons of hearth, Dragons of home,

Stable as Earth, Stable as stone,

Lend me your strength, lend me your calm

Help me to make this magical balm.

Step 3: Light the peace incense and light the candles.  Write the person's name on each piece of paper in blue ink, and pass each one through the smoke of the incense and say:

As smoke fades to nothing, so does the anger that lies between [name] and me. 

Let no harsh word or ill feeling remain that may cloud our hearts or minds.

Light each piece of paper from a different candle and place it in the fire-proof receptacle.  As you light each one, chant:

Peace I send from me to you,

Love I send to follow through.

From this anger be set free,

As I will, so mote it be!

Let the candles burn themselves out if possible.  If not, try to burn the candles for two hours each day/night until they burn out.  If you cast a formal circle close it as usual.