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2006.07.21 - Okay, the backstory:

Back a few years ago, I managed to stay the night at this girl I knew's house, because she had passed out at work and I was wanting to keep an eye on her. The next day, we ended up at walmart, where she was meeting up with his guy she was dating--and of course, her family didn't want her dating him, because she was 15...and he was 20. Okay, no big deal, right? The state limit is four years, and theirs was five. It wasn't like they were even doing anything. We had been in the garden center that whole time, and since I'm antisocial by default, I didn't say anything to him, or the other way around. Oh well, he was the quiet type anyway.

A couple years later, perhaps, and I found myself running into this guy again, of course, with my friend. I had just been with her while she was at a job interview at Target over by Rivergate Mall. I think it was later that afternoon, when he came by the house while she was with me. Things go pretty well. I jokingly groped my friend's chest--but would you blame me? I'm bi, and she had been flatchested up until then. I had to make sure they were real. XD Okay, so I'm a flirt by heart, if the situation urges me to be. I did it all quiet like, and it was harmless. No harm, no foul. After that, it was nothing but random run-in's at Walmart. We'd wave, I'd talk to her and they'd be on their way. Last time he had seen me, I was getting my hair cut off for my buddy's prom.

Now:

Okay, he know lives within spitting distance of me, with his aunt. He apparently likes me, and I already liked him. Well, I showed my friend Dominick pics of him and did NOT get the best of reactions out of him:

He treated his ex gf like shit, he's far to possessive, has violent tendancys that cause him to get hurt. I've for a long time suspected he was not only a lier but also a thief. I'm postive he cheated repeatedly on his ex gf because he could just sweet talk her so easy.

By the way his ex gf is one of the sweetest lil gals I've met. Even if she isn't the brightest.

In short I don't much like the way he treats people. And feel like drama and trouble seem to follow him.

hope he's not one of your close friends, wouldn't want my opinion to hurt our friendship.

It's official. Houson, we have a problem. Now, I can only wonder this--Did Dominick's opinion come from personal experience, or from Niki's love of causing drama? Niki can't be just sweet talked into anything, and it was very obvious that she was the dominate force in that relationship. So, only time'll tell, and I'll have to see for myself. Of course, when it comes to me staying with Dominick and Margaret, no one is going to tell me otherwise, and -someone- will just have to live with it. And...if he touched me in a harmful way outside of typical horsing around, I will not hesitate to kneecap him. I know what happens with violent guys. I still miss my cousin Tia. And I will not allow myself to be victimized.

TC was confused @ 1:10PM
Friday, July 21, 2006