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Very Attractive Women Are Approached All The Time
I'm going to remind
you of something that I talked about earlier in
this book: Most attractive women are approached in one way or
another all the time by men.
I was watching Chris Rock doing a stand up routine recently. Chris
was telling the women in the audience that anytime a man is being
nice, it's because he's offering sex (or 'dick' as he said).
So if a guy says "Wow, you look great" what he really means is
"Wow, you really look great, would you like some dick?"
And remember that 'desirable' women including rich women,
beautiful women, famous women, whatever are used to being treated
like queens. (It's really no fault of theirs - even very handsome men
are notorious for acting arrogant. It's part of being a human. We can
all become spoiled easily if the right combination of circumstances
arise. By the way, it's good to keep a "You're spoiled, and I don't really
blame you for it... you were just luck to be born beautiful and have
everyone kiss your ass" attitude...)
Being spoiled, these women act bratty to get their way, but the ass
kissing and always getting their way also has another effect. Since
they are so used to being courted and having a man kiss their ass,
when you show up and act funny and charming, and don't play into
any of their games (make fun of them, do the pretend ass-kisser
imitation, tell them that they want you, tease them, don't answer ANY
of their questions about job, car, home, social, where you go, etc. and
even label all of those questions as "Did you get a list of these
questions like all the other shallow women around here?" etc.) it often
has the effect of them thinking "Wow, this is sure DIFFERENT." and it
gets their attention. The humor and arrogance (arrogance based on a
self-knowing, not an outer success or trappings thing) keeps their
attention.
I think that it's all about interrupting the current train of thought
with some type of DIFFERENT AND INTERESTING behavior. You can
use tricks or props or whatever, but you have to interrupt the woman
and first get her attention... then you can get to the good part of doing
the things that give her the FEELINGS that she wants and playing the
part of the MAN that her unconscious wants.
Many experts talk of getting rapport, acting like them, etc.
initially... I've found that breaking rapport usually works better for me.
(Rapport is the concept of breathing, moving, talking like another
person so they feel a connection with you. Many people recommend
rapport techniques when meeting women.)
But it's a special kind of breaking rapport that I use. I break
rapport in a funny and charming way, which actually ASSUMES rapport
from the beginning (I insult women that I don't know in a playful way
all the time. Her only real choices are to respond internally and
externally with "This guy is a jerk, I'm outta here" or "You've got some
balls - but you're damn funny - and for some reason, I feel like I know
you")
When you point out a woman's quirks or insecurities in a way that
makes her laugh, you do so many positive things at once. She can't
deny that the things you're saying are true, BECAUSE SHE'S
LAUGHING. And she can't really hate you too much, because it's kind
of fun.
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