Let's Be Friends

Have you ever noticed how women will say "I like him, but only as
a FRIEND."
Don't you hate that?
I thought about that one for a long time, and a friend of mine and I
have figured out how to turn this one around. Now I always make
reference to ‘making friends’ and ‘let’s get together and make friends’
and ‘if nothing else, we can be friends’ in the first conversation and
when setting up the first coffee date.
Then when on the date, I talk about why I like to make ‘friends’
first to get to know the other person. ‘I think that you’re going to
make a nice friend.'
Then, after the friendship frame is established, I flirt like hell, and
make sexual innuendoes and jokes. This immediately sets up the idea
that I'm very in control of myself, and that I'm going to JUDGE
whether l want to be more than friends based on something more than
JUST HER LOOKS.
This is something that a woman has most likely NEVER
encountered (as you know, this is a favorite of mine).
By the way, if you talk about being friends first, it makes you
remember to look past the looks and find out what kind of person
you're dealing with (If I had a dollar for every guy I know, including
myself, that screwed his life up by getting too involved with a woman
because she was attractive on the outside, but turned out to be a
horrible person...)
You can keep up this 'let's be friends' fun forever. Even after you
start dating, still talk about it. It's fun to have fun with it. You'll see.

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