More Nuggets of Gold

Always end conversations, meetings, and phone calls first.
I got this idea from the book "The Rules." You remember that book
that was written about how to get a man to marry you? Well, it's a
great book. But I don't think the authors would like the reasons why I
think it's great. I take all of it and turn it around. When you play the
games that women play on THEM, you will not believe the responses
you get.
Now, I used to be against any kind of 'game playing.' I still don't
like lies, cheating, and general dishonesty or manipulation. BUT, when
you use these things in the right way, it becomes kind of a 'game' that
women LOVE to play. It's strange, but women love to tease and be
teased. And if you don't take this stuff too seriously, you can have
some real fun.
But, I digress... The reason to end conversations, calls, and
meetings first is because it does two things: First, it says "I'm not a
needy guy, and I have things to do. I'm busy, and if you want me,
you're going to have to work to get me."
Second, it sets up a situation where YOU are in control of the
situation. If you will start doing this with EVERY call, EVERY meeting,
and EVERY conversation, you will be blown away at the responses
you'll get.
You'll have women say "What? But we're having so much fun...!"
and "Well, when can I see you again?" and "Don't you like me?"
By the way, don't take the bait when they say these things! Say
"Of course I like you, and of course I'm having fun, but I'm busy and I
have a few things to do, so call me tomorrow and maybe I can get
together with you at the end of the week again."
I LOVE THIS!!! Love it! Love it! Love it!
And women love it too. As much as you might think this is cruel
and unusual punishment, women love nothing more than to go home
wondering "Does he love me? Does he like me? Will he call me? Did he
have fun?"

I know, I know... sounds too bizarre to be true, but trust me.
Tease and do these, and you'll find that they'll work like a charm...
plus have the added bonus of being damn fun!
***I have to insert here that I've given this advice to many a
needy man who have rejected it whole heartedly. They continue to act
needy and not let women go at the end of the night, when talking on
the phone, etc. By not making themselves scarce and unusual, they
make themselves valueless. Don't make the same mistake yourself.
Another one that I use often is "Don’t say caring and affectionate
things directly, say them indirectly." Women have a love for
metaphors, demonstrations, stories, gifts, etc.
For instance, saying “You’re beautiful” 12 times a day isn’t
attractive, but writing a poem that says it and leaving it somewhere as
a surprise is very attractive.
Also, if I'm appreciating something about a woman, I point to a
specific part or thing or detail. Women love it when you NOTICE
things.
This reminds of the very important point: Women LOVE it when
you THINK about them. If you say "I was thinking about you, so I
wrote you" the woman will have something inside go 'click!' I believe
that women like gifts not because they have value, but because they
say "I was thinking about you, I have these feelings for you, and this
gift is a symbol of that."
Does this make sense to you?
I didn't think so. It didn't to me, either. But IT'S TRUE. So start
telling women that you were thinking about them, that you were
remembering times with them, that something reminded you of them.
If you do this, you don't have to buy gifts anymore! They know you're
thinking about them! Nice.
Here's another one that I've figured out that doesn't make any
sense at all: Women love 'Mismatched Communication.' What I mean
by this is that women like it when you're doing one thing serious and
one thing jokingly, or being verbally tough, but physically affectionate.
Let me give you a couple of examples.
If you're talking to a woman and telling her that you think she's
beautiful, keep a very SERIOUS look on your face. This adds all kinds
of drama to the situation, and gives the woman something to imagine
containing all kinds of deep meaning. (By the way, most men smile too
much. Smile less when talking to women. It will keep them wondering
what you're thinking and it will help you.)
Or, while kissing a woman, reach down and bite her on the neck
just a tiny bit too hard (no blood please).
One thing tender, one thing slightly violent.
Or maybe you've just gotten done holding her hand and kissing
her. When she stands up, give her a spank on the ass. And tell her it
was because she's such a good kisser.
The idea here is that what you're feeling is causing you to do
something IRRATIONAL. You've being swept away by the moment. Or
you're having conflicting feelings inside. This leaves it to her to figure
out what you're 'REALLY' feeling, which women love to do.
It also makes you the most interesting, unpredictable guy she's
ever met.
You know, another thing that I've noticed is that women LOVE to
talk about sex. Most men are not comfortable bringing up the subject
with women they don't know. But try telling a couple of dirty jokes, or
talking about a sex program you saw on T.V. Most women will jump
right in and start giving their take on the topic. It's amazing. Try it.