On Predictability

Don't be predictable. Do the unexpected when they LEAST expect
it.
But don’t overdo by acting extreme too often. If you do the
unexpected too much, it will come off as unstable, etc.
People in general, including women, are attracted to the novel...
the unusual... the different.
Predictability is the enemy of interesting.
If you always act predictable, then by DEFINITION you're not
interesting.
So keep doing things that are interesting and unexpected.
If she wants a kiss, say "No." But kiss her later when YOU feel like
it. If she wants to sit on your lap, push her off. But give her a hug
later when YOU feel like it.
The Dark Side: Don't do things that are too far out in order to be
unpredictable. I said be unpredictable, not UNSTABLE. Don't get too
wild, or you'll come across as being loopy.
Another facet of this mindset: Don’t be too friendly too early.
This includes touching and smiling. If you do either too much,
you'll mess it up for yourself.
If you act too interested too early, you'll come across as needy. By
leaning back and keeping a calm, indifferent attitude you'll be more
interesting.
I like to take this idea to it's extreme by teasing and making a
woman beg me for things that she wants and commit to things during
times when it's unfair (in a fun way, of course).
For instance, if she wants a kiss, tell her that you'll only give her
one if she rubs your back, etc.
Use your imagination here. The idea is to do things that are
unexpected and different.
To summarize, if you become too predictable, you will become
uninteresting to a woman. We humans are naturally drawn to things
that we cannot completely figure out. So keep some things a mystery.
Do some things that don't make sense. Don't be predictable.

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