It's A Game To Them

Women often view men picking up on them as a sort of game.
They talk about it with each other, they have standard lines that they
learn when you ask for their number - "Why don't you give me YOUR
number instead and I can call you...?" and so on.
I know that some, maybe even most women go out on weekends
with the mindset of "I'm never going to meet Mr. Right at a club, but it
boosts my ego to have men paying attention to me by the dozens, and
I like to have free drinks... and I love to dance with my girlfriends and
be a tease... and I love the power of shooting men down while
pretending to be annoyed by it... etc."
 

Why Women Are Attracted To Things Like Fame, Money And Power

I recently answered the question "What is it about fame and
money and power that attracts women?" for someone. I say that
women are attracted to men that are famous, rich, powerful for a
REASON.
My opinion is that they believe on a genetically and socially
programmed, unconscious level that these men are more intelligent,
more fun, more interesting, more able to give them the lifestyle - and
MOST IMPORTANTLY- give them the FEELINGS that they want. In his
book 'Influence' Robert Cialdini talks about a psychological principle
called the 'Halo Effect.' In a nutshell, humans naturally assume that
attractive and powerful people are smarter and more trustworthy than
average people.

A woman desires a man that fits into her self image fantasies that
have been forming since she was very young. And thanks to Disney
these fantasies were imbedded even further than her genetic wiring
ever intended.

Overall, the answer is to realize that rich, powerful, famous guys
have the advantage at the beginning from their FAMILIARITY and
ASSUMED, PROJECTED positive traits. But if you can learn to get a
woman's attention and then give her the FEELINGS that she's always
wanted, she'll treat you like you're famous, rich, and powerful as well.
A tall, handsome man, or a famous rich man 'pushes a button' and
triggers certain feelings inside of a woman. If you're not rich, famous,
tall and/or super attractive, you have to learn to 'install the button' so
that when they see you, then have those feelings. The good news is
that you can do this with most women, whereas you cannot with most
men.
While women are interested in looks to some degree, they are
MORE interested in how you make them feel. Even if you don't
understand this, you have to believe it and start acting as though it's
true. You must behave as if you confidently believe that you are the
best thing for a woman, and that you are going to make her feel
wonderful inside.
Women can pick up this particular belief, and they respond to it.
Ask yourself:
"How would I walk if I believed that I could make any woman feel
great inside?
"How would I talk if I believed that I could make any woman feel
great inside?"
"What would the expression be on my face if I believed that I could
make any woman feel great inside?"
"How would I act differently if I were the kind of man that women
dreamed about?"
Then start doing these things. When you're talking to a woman,
imagine how good you're going to make her feel. Fake it till you make
it. Just do it. Women will notice.