The Underlying Motives

I think that it's important to look at the differences between men
and women from an objective perspective and to not take things
personally.
Remember that just about every thought and behavior that a
woman has, no matter how little sense it may make to you, has some
positive intention behind it. Drama is often to get attention. Jealousy is
often a way of protecting a relationship. Games are often used to
make sure that a man is serious and willing to invest energy.
So as you work to become more successful with women, remember
to not take things personally. Don't get discouraged if you encounter
games, drama and things that you don't understand. It's all part of the
game.
I believe that underneath it all, men are usually trying to find
women who will give them sex, and women are usually trying to find
men who will give them loyalty and commitment. This has evolved
over many millions of years, and these goals contain an obvious
conflict of interest.
So just realize this, and as you learn, remember to take this into
consideration.
And, of course, don't take any of it personally. Men have been
dealing with all these same issues for a long, long time.

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