Breaking rapport may not always be the wisest choice. For women who really crave rapport, your best bet may be to amplify that. There are several ways to do this.

1. One is to pull out every rapport building technique in your arsenal. Lay it on heavy with the empathy, cold reads, and matching & mirroring.
2. Another way to amplify rapport is with rapport building GAMES. The Cube is one of them. It’s rather technical to learn, so read through the whole description in the book "Secrets of The Cube" by Annie Gottlieb. I’m not a big fan of The Cube myself. To me it’s like a personality test, so in my eyes running The Cube on a woman is like pulling out a personality test from Cosmo and doing it with her. It’s fun, it gets her talking about herself, but it’s not YOU. If you were to use cold reading instead, she’ll see YOU as a deeply insightful person. Feel free to use The Cube, however I prefer the other techniques for building rapport. Another game useful for amplifying rapport and even kiss-closing is Soul Gazing. Ask: "Have you ever heard of soul gazing?" (yes or no) "Really? It's something they teach in Tantra. It's where two lovers stare deeply into each others eyes to really become in touch with each other. Wanna try it?" Follow with eye contact with bedroom eyes for as long as possible, if she starts to giggle then move in and kiss her. Soul-gazing works best when you’ve developed a lot of rapport already, and on girls who are more into woo-woo New Age stuff.
3. NLP patterns are another way to amplify rapport. NLP patterns are described later in this section.

"Kino" is short for Kinesthetics, i.e. physical touching and body sensations. Playful kino involves tickling her, slapping her hand for being "naughty", flicking her ear or her hair, picking her up, throwing her over your shoulder, whatever. It’s being physical in a playful, non-sexual way. Of course it could always get sexual later (in the Close phase), but for now you want her to associate good feelings with physical contact with you.

"Cavemanning" is another word for playful kino. Read more about Cavemanning in the Attract phase.

You can also bring up touch sensitivity to initiate playful kino: (she blushes at something) "You’re a blusher?? Do you find your skin very sensitive to touch? Like if I ran my nails down your back slowly and gently, would it send electricity throughout your body?" If she says yes, run your nails down her back and smile. If she says no, say "We’ll see" and do it anyway.

If she seems free-spirited, DO PHYSICAL STUFF THAT’S FUN: Make her spin around and ask her if she knows how to DANCE (this on the street). Make her TEACH YOU HER DANCE MOVES right there on the street. Grab her and start Salsa dancing on the sidewalk to her while making your own music. String some unrelated Spanish words together and make a song out of them as you dance with her.

Once you’ve had a good round of playful kino with her, use this: "I need to tell you something. This is serious. I'm pregnant. Our reckless (hand-holding/dancing/wrestling/whatever) has had consequences. I hope that you'll want to be a part of our new child's life, but either way I'm keeping it and there's nothing you can do about it. I'll be waiting for the monthly support check. You can start now by getting me something to drink. Oh my God, I just felt it kick! Hurry on that drink. Our baby needs it."

If something worked to attract her earlier, it’s going to work to attract her now. If open loops were what really drove her crazy during the attract phase, then start several during this phase. Whatever it was, push/pull, C&F, role-playing, sexual themes, bring it back and really pour it on to get her heated up. After the calm period of rapport, bringing this behavior back will show a marked contrast, and it’ll have an even greater effect than it did before.

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