CLOSE PHASE 1. Taking the Lead 2. Contact Closing 3. Kiss Closing 4. Meet Closing 5. Sex Closing 6. Ejecting The term "closing" comes from sales, where it’s used to describe making the final sale of the good or service to the client. In pick-up and seduction it describes getting what you want from the woman, be it a number, a kiss, a meeting, or sex. When attempting a close of any kind, the most important thing to do is RELAX! When you realize that you don't have to close all the time, then it takes the pressure off and you become much more relaxed. Paradoxically, this almost always leads to your closing far more often than you ever imagined possible! The key is to KEEP GOING AND CONTINUE TO THE NEXT STEP ALWAYS. If your conversation is going well, do a contact close. If you're out for a walk and the conversation seems to be going well, do a kiss close. If you're at your house watching a movie and you start kissing, take her hand and lead her to your bedroom for a sex close. Keep advancing! Women like this and expect it. If they're not comfortable, they'll tell you about it. But don't worry. Just keep going, and advance again at next opportunity. There’s one thing about closing that you MUST keep in mind. If someone won’t give you what you want, no amount of begging, pleading, arguing, guilt-tripping, or logical arguing is going to make them give it to you. You need to focus on changing her MOOD rather than her MIND. If she’s reluctant to give you her number, get her laughing, develop some rapport with her, then attempt another contact close. If she’s not ready to have sex with you, then rev her up with teasing and anticipation and try again later.
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