If you can read body language fairly well, you'll know when the girl is receptive or ready or even waiting for a kiss close. She'll let you touch her without resistance, touches you in return, wets her lips slightly and/or looks at your lips, especially when you are about to leave each other. But there are a number of situations, where things aren’t that clear, you're not sure if she is in the mood, or things have not been going too well etc. The dumbest thing to do here is to leave without actually finding out; this applies even if you did the contact close.

Of course, you have to pick your situations; for example you can't start asking for a kiss close in front of her friends or relatives (she might even be dying to kiss you, but she just can't do it in front of others—that’s why extracting her/isolating her from the others is so important) but you should always aim for the kiss close nevertheless.

Don't use a "Can I kiss you?" line – it’s indicative of supplicating tendencies and puts her too much on a pedestal from which it's easy for her to reject you. Instead, use the Mystery-style "Would you like to kiss me?" and go for the kiss if the response is anything but a blatant "NO!" Don't expect a "yes", you'll hardly ever get it. But the lack of an outright refusal (I don't know) usually means that she really would like to kiss you, but she's just processing the situation as kissing has both social and personal implications and she's not quite ready, or it's not a comfortable place for her to do it, etc. But never mind all that, say "Let's find out" and go for the kiss - she'll enjoy it! If the reply however is a "NO!", then do a Mystery-style follow-up: "Gee, you sure wrecked a moment, I bet your previous boyfriends must have really hated that about you..." It’s a good neg-hit to make her re-evaluate her position and usually you'll be able to proceed with her the next time you try (note the importance of persistence here!).

If she’s admitted she’s ticklish, start tickling her! Keep it up, and soon she’ll be laughing and saying Stop! Stop! At the peak, when she’s laughing and giggling and all full of good emotions, take her head in your hands gently and plant one on her lips. Start kissing her, and after about 10 seconds pull back and say "Do you still want me to STOP?" Don’t wait for her to answer, just go back to her lips and continue.

After doing some fluff-talk with a girl and getting some rapport and light kino/touching going, ask her if she likes local or foreign guys better, because you prefer foreign girls over local girls (which doesn't have to be true). Then after her "But why?" you tell her it's because local girls don't know how to kiss properly. After a little bit of an argument, just grab her and say "So let's find out!" or "Prove it!" and move in for the kiss.

Tell the girl that you'll bet her a dollar (or a drink) that you can kiss her without using your lips or your tongue. Girls usually think/know that you're up to something, so sometimes it takes a little convincing to get them to take the bet. They'll take it about 1/3 of the time. If the girl is a good friend and she doesn't take the bet, say "Ok. Fine...Just check out this trick I learned...you can use it to make money off people," then play it off like your doing her a favor by showing her this. Then if she accepts the bet or you offer to show her "the trick" do this: Say: "Ready...Watch this!" Then move in like you are going to kiss her on the lips. Ok this is important. When you reach the point of no return you absolutely MUST lay the smoothest and I mean the smoothest kiss on her she has ever experienced. Then say "Damn you're a good kisser! I guess I owe you a buck!" If your kiss is smooth enough this will most definitely lead to more kissing and maybe even a child! (If you need a good C&F line here say "I don't think that kiss was worth more than 50 cents, you owe me another")

"On a scale of 1-10 how good of a kisser are you?" They'll usually say a ten (hot chicks want to sustain their value as a hot chick). Then kiss her. Why does this work? This works because you're challenging how good of a kisser she is. After it's done, say C&F "That was terrible! Let's do it again to see what you've REALLY got!"

Best used at the end of a meeting/date, if you haven’t kissed yet. "Well, gimme a hug, because it's way too soon for a first kiss." Hug her, then say "Well now that we’ve successfully passed the hugging stage, we can kiss."(kiss her!)

Playful slap kiss close: When you’re teasing each other and she makes a bratty comment, slap her leg just a LITTLE too hard. When she complains, go to "kiss it better". Then look her in the eyes, smile and say "I hope I don’t have to slap your lips to get a REAL kiss". Then kiss her.

If a woman hints at sex with you, or the topic of sex comes up: "I couldn't have sex with you just like that...I don't even know if you're a good kisser yet!" Then move in and kiss her.

Ask her to rate her kissing skills on a scale of 1 to 10. When she asks you how good of a kisser YOU are, say "I've kissed so many women I can do it with my eyes closed. Watch." Then move in to kiss her.

"You know what the perfect kiss is? It starts way before your lips meet--it's this little knot in the pit of your stomach. Then it flashes in your eyes, giving the signal for both of you to move in. And what’s more intense sometimes than the kiss itself, is that moment right BEFORE the kiss…When your lips are almost touching and you can feel the electricity…as if we’re kissing the air between us…"Move in very slowly as you’re saying this, timing it so that when you say "kissing the air between us" your lips really ARE just separated by a tiny space. Kiss her as soon as you’ve finished saying it.

"You have the lips of a woman who knows how to kiss a man."

"You realize, of course, that you and I are gonna be kissing later". Say this with a dead serious look on your face.

"I want to get a movie and go to your house so that we can pretend to watch the movie while sexual tension builds until we start making out like animals in heat."

"I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now".

She asks "Do you want to kiss me?" "Not as much as you want to kiss me."

Most kiss close resistance will be caused by either:

1. YOU appearing unsure of yourself
2. The presence of friends (remember the ASD!)
3. Insufficient attraction and/or rapport built earlier in the encounter
4. She just flat-out finds you "unkissable" (not her type, your lips are all cracked, you’re sick and she doesn’t want to catch it, etc)

Obviously #4 you can’t really do anything about, but for #1-3, the solution is to take a step back and do what you were doing before, FIX whichever of the three blocked you, then attempt to kiss close again.

Don’t show anger or hurt at having your kiss close rejected. Smile and joke about it C&F: "Geez, you sure know how to spoil the mood, don’t you?". Or say in a sarcastic yet charming way, "Why did you tease me if you didn't want to kiss me? You're a very bad girl for trying to play games with me. I'll bet you tease all the men you meet." This way you can always try again later, whereas if you’d reacted to it badly you probably would’ve blown all your chances for a future kiss close.

YES, you can kiss-close a two set, if the girls are adventurous and/or bisexual.

"Which one of you is a better kisser?" If one says "ME!" take her up on it and kiss-close her right there. Then say "Well, that was good, but let’s see how she is". Then you go and kiss-close her friend. It’s totally congruent with the conversation, so it’s the natural thing to do. "Yeah, that was good too, but I’m having trouble deciding. Let me see." Then go back and kiss the original girl again, then the friend to compare. Point to the least hot one and say to the hottest one, "SHE’s the best kisser." After this the hottest one will probably try to prove her value and pounce on you, kissing her very best. If things are going well, "She’s pretty good, kiss her and see". If you’re with the right kind of women, they’ll kiss each other and you can say "See?" Bring up "Have you guys ever had a 3-way kiss?" then kiss one immediately after the other. At any point in this game if either of the girls acts weirded out or prudish, say you were just playing around and make fun of her for taking you seriously.

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