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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Ming answers....
What is the best way to meet Filipinas?
Naturally, the best way to meet Filipinas is to travel to my country, the Philippines.
However, one can also pick up the pen and write to any of these single ladies listed,
on this pages. Snail mail, take a duration of 2 weeks, and even longer.
Thanks to Internet the time span is shortened.
However in the province, many girls do not have access to the Internet, and if they do,
they just dont know how it works. I do offer e-mail services, wherein you send me your letter,
thru e-mail, and i will post them locally. It still takes a couple of days,
but definitely, beats snail mail!
She's 18, and I'm approaching my 60's. Am I too old for her?
Age does not matter nor does height, color, race, sex, etc. Love knows no boundaries.
Many Filipinas mature early due to many situations especially economic. They start out in life at a ripe age of 14,
or sometimes even younger to help their parents raise the family, and take care of their brothers and sisters too.
Thus sometimes, you have a very young filipina at 18, who's going on 60 mentally. : ) hahaha lol.
Seriously, I do know a couple personally, who are good friends of mine, and seem to be very happy.
They don't feel the age difference anymore. It really all depends on the maturity of the woman.
It's a case to case basis. However there are some points to consider. What if she wants a child?
Could you handle a child when you are approaching your golden years? Again, I have seen this happened,
in a marraige that seems to be working. So nothing is really impossible in LOVE!
What is the stand of the American Man in the Philippines?
Many Filipinas would love to marry Americans, but also Europeans, and Japanese.
The reason varies. Most of them have to do with the economic factor of our country.
They long for a better life, not only for them, but for their family as well. This is the foremost goals.
So during the engagement period, in most cases,
the future bridegroom does work out an agreement with the Brides' parents,
to help at least the family by sending them money regularly.
Another reason the Filipinas love foreigners, is the improvement of their race.
Still having a colonial mentality, they still think white or the mixtures
is a superior race or makes a more beautiful race.
Sometimes it's true, but not all the time. Beauty again is a case to case basis.
What is beautiful for one country is not the same as the other countries .
Unfortunately , the filipinos still measure beauty from the color of one's skin
or the height of their nose' bridge. Funny but true!
WHY DO FILIPINAS MAKE GREAT WIVES?
I think it is their Staying Power. Okay, there are no perfect marraiges nor perfect Filipinas.
But Filipinas do have a "staying power" more than any other race. They do try to exhaust all resources,
before they even consider leaving thier husband, and marriage. And in most cases,
they do grit their teeth and make it work! In many marraige for convenience, or security,
the woman is just grateful that she can provide for her extended family back in the Philippines.
Her happiness is secondary. It's a little sacrifice to put up with the indiosynchrinities
of her husband, but she manages to support her family in the Philippines, as well as distant relatives.
Also she doesn have much choice, either she enjoy the convenience of a modern world,
or go back to the poverty, where she is coming from. Anything else is better.
The man probably just needs a housekeeper, and caretaker for his kids,
so each of them serve thier purpose.
It's a silent pact, which both of them have accepted and undertsood.
WILL SHE LOVE ME FOR MYSELF?
Let's face it, many Filipinas primarily marries a foreigner to improve thier economic status
and that of thier families in the Philippines.
She sees beyond the physiques of a person, if he is unattractive or even physically handicapped.
Instead most Filipinas seeks a good person with a kind heart.
In many of theses cases, where mutual respect and kindness is applied,
LOVE does grow.
Any cities I should consider specifically?
The city is not really that important as to the lady personally concerned.
But some cities and thier corresponding people, do have some particular or can we say, peculiar traits.
Like Cebuanos are known to be typical islanders who are daring, brave, and carefree (is this good or bad?)
Who's cooking for dinner? They prefer to sing and dance!
And if you find Cebuanos roaming around the world, I wouldnt be surprise!
The people from the Northern Philippines are generally hard-working, conservative, traditional,
and very binded to thier families. The people from Pampanga are great cooks.
The manila crowd is worldly and sophisticated.
Olangapo....well, you know....
Camotes people are very simple and of humble origins.
The people from mindanao especially the south,
is a mixture of spanish as well moslem culture.
A conglomeration of racial traits and characteristics.
If you desire to relocate in the Philippines, I would suggest you pick your favourite city first,
and then look for your woman, thereafter.
Otherwise, there might be some problems...
IS IT ADVISABLE TO GET MARRIED IN THE PHILIPPINES
OR IN OUR RESPECTIVE COUNTRIES ?
Naturally, to a Filipina, it is important to her and her family to get married in our country.
First of all, there are no divorce if the marriage vows were take in the church.
Generally in our country, there are no divorce at all, even if it was a civil wedding.
As for practicality, it is better to travel on a tourist or a fiancee visa,
and get married in your respective countries.
WHY?
If marriage was held here in the Philippines,
the processing of the papers take a long time, sometimes a duration of a year or two.
Don't ask me why? It just happens to be the case.
I am speaking from experience, pertaining to marriages with Filipina and a American.
It is on a case to case basis. Each country have their different set of codes and regulations.
