Attracting the opposite sex
Another use of visualization could be to find the girl of your dream.First again you relax using previous taught method, then imagine yourself as being attractive to the member of the opposite sex.It doesn't matter if girls don't find you attractive NOW..You just visualize yourself as very attractive to girls.You see in your mind has getting a lot of dates.You visualize getting a lot of phone calls from the girls you know.Be specific which restaurants do you go,what are some of the foods that you order.See the girl smilling at you .See when the date ends and you are dropping her off at her house ,she really likes you.See your phone books full of phone numbers of girls.Other then visualizing techniques you use the self talk method.Self talk is basically what you say to yourself as you go about your life.If you see a girl say to yourself i am attractive to girls.When in a date say to yourself she is finding me attractive.When you talk to her say to yourself ,she is finding this conversation very interesting.Be in tune with her body language.Lastly use the" act as if" method .First study a few guys you know who seems to get all the girl.Better still make friends with them.Write down what they do that seems to work,now use the same techniques yourself.Act as if you already are attractive to girls,act as if you already have a lot of dates,the strange thing about the "act as if" principle is you become sooner or latter what you act.Study how a guy who is attractive to girls talk ,what are the things that he does that turns the girls on.Then do it yourself. If you have trouble in doing what he does maybe because you are too shy then visualize yourself doing what he does. Lastly increase your self estem ,depend only in yourself for feeling good,have worthwhile goals,do what you like or increase your sense self worth and you will find yourself attracting girls because girls absolutely likes guys who are heading somewhere with their life
Here is a method described in the Silva Method of Mind Developement in finding the girl /boy of your dream.First list the ideal quality that you are looking for in the girl /boy of your dream.
Secondly just before you go to sleep do the relaxation technique taught earlier .Then you do what is called subjective programming ,You basically say to yourself:"I will awaken when the largest number of men/women having the ideal qualitiy I have in mind for a perfect mate,are having their last dream or are most open to programming.I will awaken and I will remember why I have awaken".Then you just drift off to sleep.What will happen next is as you sleep, your message or thought will reach all people who are your potential mate.You will find yourself suddenly awakening in the middle of the night .When you awake you close your eyes and do Mental introduction of your self.Then visualize and list the qualities that you are looking in your mate.After that give them an idea where to find you.
You could say something like:" Hello my name is____.I am looking for a perfect mate/friend(state the kind of relationship you are looking for).These are my qualities(list what you have got to offer).I am looking for someone who(list the quality that you are looking for in your mate.I work..I study ...I eat... at ( in another word the places that you can be found by them).Since we have already mentally meet.,we will physically recognize each other when we meet."
Then you go off to sleep.The next day go out and look for them!.While I myself have not tried this methods ,the sucess rate is very high according to those who have tried.
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