Midnight Romance
by The Midnight Lover aka Mr. T
Some FAQ's about me
I operate a successful on-line store which markets gift items and features over 500 patriotic designs and slogans! Click on pic to visit my store.
by The Midnight Lover aka Mr. T
I operate a successful on-line store which markets gift items and features over 500 patriotic designs and slogans! Click on pic to visit my store.
Why did you make this sight? So women who are interested in friendship, romance and/or possible marriage could know a little about me.
What do you do for a living? I work, what about you?
What age woman are you interest in? Well, I'm certainly interested only in adult women, over 18. I'm well into the prime of my life and believe in living it to its fullest, so if your turn out to be a younger woman who likes me, that's great. I won't kick you out of bed :-) My primary concern is that you are mature and intelligent, that you can carry on a good conversation and have a head on your shoulders with something inside it beside jello. On the other hand, if you are a cyber cop checking out my site, don't worry, I'm not interested in minors. This site is meant to appeal only to mature, adult women. As for an exact age, I'm not going to limit myself beyond saying I'm interested in mature women. You might be 18, 22, 25, or even 30. If you find me interesting and you don't look like a hippopotamus, I'd probably consider inviting you to dinner. You should realize, however, that I'm getting older and older every day. In fact we are both getting older and older by the hour. Time is a wasting. Before you know it our best years will be done and gone. I just hope if you are the right woman for me that we find each other so that we can spend the best years of our life together and keep each other young!
So what's your astrological sign? I'm a Sagittarius, very stubborn at times and really like to horse around. However, I'm usually right on target and shoot straight as an arrow. My love will pierce your heart and make you feel like the happiest woman in all the world.
What are your special interests? I enjoy traveling, going to new places, seeing new things, being with family and friends, and making mad, passionate love with the woman I love. Some of my interest include study of the natural sciences with emphasis on bioluminescence, building web sites, digital art, design and photography. For recreation I enjoy bike riding, scuba diving, sailing, camping, fishing and day hikes to explore for photographs or just experience the outdoors. I like reading biographies, sci-fi and fantasy. On my book shelf you will find everything from Tolkein's Lord of the Rings Trilogy to The Ultimate Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams. I'm also love animals and am interested in dogs and German Shepherds. Have you read So That Others May Live by Caroline Hebard? She is the type of woman I most admire.
What are you looking for in a woman? First, I realize there is no such a thing as an "ideal" man or woman. Everyone is a unique person. I don't expect anyone to fit into my mold or vision of an ideal woman, anymore than I should fit into their image of an ideal man. So I'm not talking about an "ideal woman" here, merely about qualities I admire should you have them, qualities I may be attracted to. I certainly notice women who are both attractive and intelligent. Also I'm attracted to women who are on the petite side, probably around 5'4" tall and in good physical condition. I enjoy the company of women who have a wide range of interests, a bright outlook on life and believe in LOVE. I appreaciate women who are honest, trusting, have a warm heart and a very friendly, loving nature. I would really like to find a woman who would be faithful to me should we become lovers, as I would be to her. Her warm and loving nature would radiate in everything she does. She would also be secure in her own right and refuse to let other men insult, abuse or take advantage of her. I am not attacted to meek women or women who do not have a good image of themselves. My ideal woman would love animals, especially German Shepherds, and love me most of all! :-) Is that too much to ask for in a woman? What else? Actually, this is a hard question to answer as I realize everyone is different and unique. I'm generally attracted to creative women, those who have a active life style, an energy for living, are both reflective and spontaneous at times and who enjoy talking about everything. I'm not so interested in women who hang around bars to let men pick them up, as in women who are actively engaged in some work of significance and enjoy life's adventures too much to waste away their whole lives watching soap operas. I would be most interested in a love relationship with someone who wants to share all of life's most precious moments together, including making a home and family together as a joint project to which we would each contribute our talents, energy and zest for living. Does this describe you? Probably not. At least I realize that everyone woman is unique and there are certainly many woman I could deeply love, who I have never even imagined. Perhaps you are one of them and would enjoy making my acquaintance. I realize sometimes opposites attract while sometimes it makes for a very wonderful relationship to have much in common.
Are you gay? Nope! Sorry, if that disappoints you. I'm a SWM = single, white, male and very much a heterosexual. Nore do I have any dreadful diseases like AIDs. I'm quite fit and healthy and seek a woman who is the same.
What are your stats? Oh please, I'm not a stat. I'm a handsome gentle natured man, a bachelor, and I've been told I'd make some woman a pretty good catch! You can, however, check out my
my Love@AOL Personal. Some of my stats are posted there. I can tell you this: if all you want is someone who turns you on because they meet some fantasy ideal you've created in your head, then I probably am not the person for you. I'm interested in a woman who can look into my heart, mind and soul and who will love what she finds there, which will be more than just stats. In fact, you will find that you can't really put into stats all the big pluses which really count in life or in relationships. So I endeavor to convey to women that I'm more than a list of stats, just as I expect you to be. In fact, all these single boards which group men and women via their stats are quite belittling, if not down right insulting.
Are you rich? Yes and no. It depends upon what you mean by "rich?" Besides, what does money have to do with anything? You can't take it with you! Plus, a man who has nothing but who walks with enlightenment is rich. Money generally corrupts people before they even get it in their pockets, as it becomes a value weighed more heavily than those qualities of life which are most precious. Even a poor man who knows this is rich.
Why should I trust you? Well, I do consider myself trustworthy. But I realize that trust and respect are earned. I don't expect you to have blind trust in me. Rather, I want you to give me a chance to earn your trust; for us to get to know each other over time and thus have a trust and respect that are earned and real. I believe when you come to know me you will find that I'm worthy of your trust and your respect. I'll certainly endeavor to respect and trust you.
Why are you being so allusive? Because I'm not into trivia. So many relationships do not work out because people base them on trivialities. It is what is between two people's hearts, minds and souls which determines how close they will be and how long they will stay together. Love isn't something you can find by looking at a picture. It take time and energy, sharing and investing your feelings. I'm not interested in someone who only wants a surface relationship. So I've tried to express and share a portion of my heart and soul. To the right person, that is what will make a difference.
Who is the ideal match for you? I haven't met her yet, so I don't know. I would say she probably has a deep mind, is creative, enjoys writing, dreaming and imagining. She would also enjoy doing everything together, even if she needs time to herself. I like to imagine she would fall in love with me and be faithful and devoted in every respect, as I would endeavor to be true to her. But I don't have any preconceptions on what she would look like. Beauty is more than skin deep and certainly is in the eye (and heart) of the beholder. So she would be beautiful to me because no matter what she looks like, I will see deeply into her heart, mind and soul, and love the whole being I find there. I would hope she does the same.
So why are you fascinated by the moon? Don't worry, I'm not a wolf or anything. I just like the moon because it is romantic. What could be more great than walking along beneath a full moon with the person you love, who also loves you. Or falling in love beneath a full moon, that would be wonderful. So would be sharing a first kiss or just laying down together underneath the moon, looking up at it together in each other's arms, talking and sharing deepest thoughts. So I'm fascinated by the moon as it represents possibilities for love, for romance, for sharing precious moments together.
What else can I ask? Ask me anything. I'm not going to post every little thing about me on the Internet. You know, I do cherish my privacy. Also I will respect your privacy. What we share in email or in any other relationship which may evolve, I will regard as strictly confidential. After all, what goes on behind closed doors is no one's business, even if involves the President of the United States and an intern!
Okay, so let's say the impossible happened and we fell in love and wanted to get married; where would you want to get married? Well, I'd probably leave that up to you. But I really like water falls. I think getting married at Niagara Falls would be nice.
Of course there are many other great places to get married. I think a small outdoor wedding would be nice. Just with a few family and friends. A sunrise wedding on the beach or a romantic mountain top with a panoramic view would also be nice. This would be something we could talk about. I'm open to possibilities.
Okay buster, you sound too good to be true. Let's have some pics! You are welcome to visit my photo album with pics of me, my freinds, amusing sights and some of the places I have traveled. If you like what you see contact me. Thanks.
Send me a letter of introduction via email with a picture of yourself attached. Hope to hear from you soon!
You may also reach me via cellular phone at (334) 538-2325. Leave a voice mail with your name and number if I do not answer. Thanks.
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