What is Shraaddh -
A kind of memorial ceremony to remember dead ancestors. It goes up to
three generations on both father's and mother's side. Instead of each
person performing this ceremony, the society has prescribed 16 days to
pay homage on their death ceremony in those days every year. These days
occur in the month of Aashwin. They are 16 days - one for each day of
the fortnight, that is why this fortnight starts from Bhaadrapad
Poornimaa (Full Moon day) and ends on Aashwin Amaavasyaa.
Types of Shraaddh -
In
Padm
Puraan, 1/28, Vishnu Himself says - "Whatever Shraaddh is done daily
is called "Nitya Shraaddh". When it is done in Krishn Paksh, it is
called "Kaamya Shraaddh". Then one should do Shraaddh in Pitra Paksh
also for Pitar. One should not mind whether Soorya is in Kanyaa (Virgo)
sign or not. When Soorya is in Kanyaa sign, from that day to 16 days are
very important like Yagya. One must do Kaamya Shraaddh in those days. If
one cannot Shraaddh in those days then one may do when Soorya is in
Tulaa (Libra) sign and Krishn Paksh is going on."
Matsya Puraan also says - "Nityam
Naimittakam Kaamyam Trividh Shraadh Mukhyatey" - means primarily there
are three types of Shraaddh - Nitya (daily), Naimittik (eriodically) and
Kaamya (with purpose).
When is it Done?
Shraaddh is
done after a man or woman dies. It is a religious ceremony to appease
the soul of one's family members after they die. There are a total of 16
Shraaddh. First one should do Daah Sanskaar. Then third day, he should
go for collecting the bone remnants. On 10th day he should leave wet
clothes, and then -
1st
Shraaddh - On 11th day he should do the Ekaadshaah Shraaddh, feed one Brahman
to nourish the body. At that time he should donate clothes, a stool,
shoes etc.
2nd Shraaddh - On 14th day he should do the Chaturthaah Shraaddh.
3rd Shraaddh - After three Paksh (45 days) he should do the Traipaakshik or
Saardhmaasik Shraaddh.
4th Shraaddh - Within six months he should do the Oonshaanmaasik Shraaddh.
5th Shraaddh - Within one year he should do the Oonaabdik Shraaddh. AND
12 Shraaddh - Besides mentioned 5 Shraaddh above, he should do 12 monthly
Shraaddh