Activity

Done it?

Current Rating*

Activity

Done it?

Current Rating*

2007

NO-S-M-Y

2007

NO-S-M-Y

Abrasion

Y

M

Ice cubes

Y

M

Anal sex

Y

Y

Including others

Y

M

Arm & leg sleeves

M

Infantalism

NO

Asphyxiation

Y

M

Injections - Saline

NO

Beating hard

Y

Y

Interrogations

S

Beating soft

Y

Y

Intricate rope bondage

Y

Y

Being Blindfolded

Y

Y

Kidnapping

Y

Being gagged

Y

Y

Kneeling

Y

M

Being serviced (sex)

Y

Y

Leather restraints

Y

Y

Bestiality

NO

Lecturing

M

Biting

M

Licking

M

Bondage - heavy

Y

Y

Massage - getting

Y

Y

Bondage - light

Y

Y

Massage - giving

Y

Y

Boot worship

M

Medical scenes

S

Branding

Y

NO

Mouth bits

Y

M

Breast bondage

Y

Y

Nipple clamps

Y

Y

Breast whipping

Y

Y

Nipple weights

Y

M

Brown showers

NO

Oral/anal play

Y

S

Caning

Y

S

Orgasm control

Y

Y

Catheterization

S

Orgasm denial

Y

Y

Chaueffering

M

Over the knee spanking

Y

Y

Choking

Y

M

Phone sex

Y

M

Chosen clothing for

Y

M

Piercing (perm)

NO

Chosen food for

Y

M

Piercing (temp)

Y

S

Clothespins/Mini Hair Clips

Y

M

Pussy whipping

Y

Y

Cock worship

Y

M

Pussy worship

M

Collars (wearing)

Y

Y

Religious scenes

NO

Corsets (wearing)

Y

Y

Riding crops

Y

Y

Cuffs (metal)

Y

M

Saran wrapping

Y

Y

Cutting

Y

S

Scratching - getting

Y

Y

Dilation

Y

S

Scratching - giving

M

Double penetration

Y

Y

Sensory deprivation

Y

Y

Electricity

Y

M

Serving

M

Enemas

Y

M

Serving as a maid

M

Examinations (physical)

S

Serving as a pony

M

Exhibitionism

Y

M

Serving as ashtray

NO

Face slapping

Y

M

Serving as furniture

Y

M

Fantasy gang rape

S

Serving orally

Y

M

Fantasy rape

M

Sexual deprivation

Y

M

Fisting

Y

M

Shaving

Y

M

Following orders

Y

M

Spanking

Y

Y

Foot worship

M

Speculums (Anal)

S

Forced dressing

Y

M

Speculums (vaginal)

S

Forced homosexuality

N/A

Spreader bars

Y

Y

Forced masturbation

Y

M

Stocks

M

Forced nudity (Private)

Y

M

Straight jackets

M

Forced servitude

M

Strap on dildos

Y

M

Full head hoods

Y

M

Strapping - full body

M

Genital sex

Y

Y

Supplying partners

S

Given away

S

Suspension

S

Golden showers

Y

S

Suspension (inverted)

NO

Hair pulling

Y

Y

Swapping

S

Hairbrushes

Y

M

Swinging

S

Hand jobs - giving

Y

M

Tape gags

M

Harnessing

M

Tattooing

NO

Head - getting

N/A

Teasing

Y

Y

Head - giving

Y

Y

Tickling

Y

M

High heel worship

M

Triple penetration

Y

Y

Homage with tongue

Y

M

Uniforms

M

Hot waxing

Y

Y

Verbal humiliation

M

Housework

M

Videoed scenes

M

Human puppy dog

M

Voyeurism

M

Humiliation in private

S

Whipping

Y

Y

Humiliation in public

S

Wrestling

NO

Definitions:

NO=Hard Limit: Don't even go there.

S=Soft Limit: I have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but would permit my Top to do it if it He really wanted it

M=Maybe?: This is the hard part, I like all of these activities to varying degrees. How I respond can differ markedly from day to day.

Y=Yes!: Oh, yes... pleeeeease?