| My Prince Charming Qualities: Romantic, Sensitive, Confident, Good Listener, Committed to me, Wants to have kids, Motivated, Outgoing, Intelligent, Creative, Passionate, A non-smoker, Loves his family, Knows when to be serious, Takes the lead, Knows what makes me laugh, Holds my hand, Gives lots of hugs, Has good values What I really want: Romance: Although I'm a sucker for romance, I'll probably cut a guy some slack even if he doesn't constantly pamper me with gifts and affection. I crave passion in my relationships, so I want a guy who can (and will) express his deepest feelings for me through his actions. But I know men aren't very romantic, so I'm willing to lower my standards in that area if need be. I'm willing to stick around once the courting period ends, though it's still very important that my guy occationally dote upon me. Maturity: Love might be a serious game, but it should still be fun. Too much sophistication can kill the romance. I always go for the kind of guy who knows how to cut loose and just be himself. Practicality and maturity are respectable qualities, sure, and no man should be completely without them, but they've never been high on my list of important ingredients for an exciting night out. My perfect guy should know how to have a good time without acting too childish or outrageous. Whether he adds a little bit of danger to my life or just has a great sense of humor, my ideal man would still be young enough at heart to let the kid in him emerge. Lifestyle: Love doesn't come cheap, but it doesn't have to be all that expensive either. I'm not very concerned with my ideal man's financial situation. Of course, we all dream of living well, but it's a mistake to mix my expectations of love with my hopes for a first class lifestyle. Money isn't a real romantic conern for me. On the airplane of love, I'm just as happy traveling coach as first class. Being detached from material concerns is a healthy, realistic attitude and should help make me happy. It means that when Mr. Right crosses my path, I'll be sure to recognize him and not worry about the size of his wallet. Looks: I know that love is blind, so why rule out any possible suitors? Sure, I prefer a looker (who doesn't?!), but I don't have strict standards by which I measure a potential date's physical appearance. I'm not someone who shuts the door on anyone who couldn't make a magazine cover. Of course, just because I'm willing to look past the surface doesn't mean my guy will be anything less than stunning! Whoever he is and whatever he looks like, I'll find him because my mind and heart are open. |
| My Personality Strengths: I'm an independent and original thinker--a radical, but in a good way. I'm not afraid to take charge and offer new ideas. I always have an opinion and I'm confident enough to share it. I'm nurturing and protective of my friends. My critical eye helps others see their situation more clearly. I am straightforward and trustworthy. I'm adventurous, daring, and always original. I excell under pressure and do not shy away from confrontations. I never let my emotions get out of control. I have a quick wit. Weaknesses: I am easily frustrated and can be too critical of others. I can be obsessive over the most trivial details. I'm so focused on being fair that sometimes I can't make up my mind and others lose patience with me. I'm a bad loser and can't stand failure. If someone dares to push, pull, or pressure me, they will definitely get to know my stubborn and eccentric side. I suppress my emotions, and hide them most of the time. I tend to take things too personally. Uniqueness: I have exceptionally high ethical standards when compared with those around me. I'm good at weighing the pros and cons of any situation, and making sound, well-informed decisions. I never go back on my word even if it means being unduly stubborn. I have a knack for finding and bringing out the best in people. I mean what I say, but almost never say exactly what I mean. I'm comfortable in social situations that often fluster other people. I'm very liberal. I'm most fulfilled when I can share all of my thoughts and feelings--good or bad. I have an unusually strong talent in the area of precognition. Style: Daring clothes are my trademark, but anything classic usually works for me. I love vintage clothes and one-of-a-kind pieces. I'd be lost without my collection of t-shirts and I own an abundance of sweat shirts and coats. Dream Job: I'm a true humanitarian, drawn to fields that affect people. I have a probing mind and love to dig up the truth, so being a private eye or an investigative reporter is ideal. I'd Never: Be emotionally smothering. Blow off a friend. Be a slob. Knowingly hurt someone's feelings. |