A man confused by the many actions of many wimin
Dear Confused,
I'm sure after reading your letter many men will wish that they could be just as confused as you.- just for a day even! But that aside, you say you're "in a bit of a situation". I'm going to assume that means you are having to juggle your time between these women, women who even possibly know each other from your work. You may be fearing the moment when they all get together in the ladies' room and during a good gossip session realize you are after all three simultaneously. Ouch. That could be bad news for you. Have you planned a back door escape route? Put that on your priority list. Seems to me your options are to either focus on one girl, possibly building a more meaningful relationship ("but who wants to give up any of them?!", I can hear you thinking ) or getting yourself a good sized notebook and keeping records on each of them to avoid confusion of schedules and dates, likes and dislikes, even logging their usual whereabouts so as to keep them as far apart from each other as possible at all times. You may want to use graphs and charts. Your biggest problem will be keeping their names straight. That's when using one universal pet name is a good practice. Just remember, its all in the organization. With that under control you should be able to keep the status quo in addition to chatting up the next girl you share an elevator ride with!