The Fruit Bowl
In Galations 5:22,23 we find a listing of the Fruit of the Spirit: Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, and Self-Control. We're told in God's Word that people will know us by our fruit. That's how they will be able to tell if we are followers and servants of Christ. The Bible also tells us that God will cut off the branches that don't bear good fruit! Yikes! This fruit thing is pretty important, isn't it?! Well, here we will feature one of these "fruits" in each issue, starting with the first fruit mentioned: Love. Do you think that the "fruit" you bear is good? Do you think that people are able to tell that you are a Christian by the way that you act or respond in different situations? Let's take a look at this issue's featured fruit...
(Sorry about the length of this one...I just got really into it this time!) :)
KINDNESS
Galatians 5:22 lists kindness as the fifth fruit of the Spirit. This is a term that we’re all familiar with, but what exactly does it mean? Most of us probably associate kindness with being nice and thoughtful, but its meaning really goes much deeper than that. Webster’s dictionary defines kindness as: the state or act of being affectionate and loving; of a sympathetic nature or forbearing nature; gentle and pleasant and agreeable. It says “kind, kindly, benign, benignant mean showing a gentle, considerate nature. Kind and kindly both imply sympathy and humaneness and interest in another’s welfare, kind stressing a disposition to be helpful and kindly stressing more the expression of a sympathetic nature or impulse…”
As I studied the various scriptures throughout the Bible that speak of kindness, I gathered together my own description of the way that the Bible talks about kindness. It seems to me that Biblical kindness implied compassion, help, and generosity. Many times a person would show kindness to another person or group of people because someone else stood up for them and asked that they be shown kindness, like mercy.
Kindness was also often looked upon as a favor or act of repaying a person’s descendants because of something “kind” that the ancestor had done before. It’s interesting that Proverbs talks a lot about being kind to the poor and needy. It appears that much of the time kindness was something that was extended to people who couldn’t help themselves. It was like charity. But kindness, like benevolence, comes from the heart and is not based on the recipient’s ability to repay the kindness. True kindness is free.
Repeatedly throughout the Bible, the word kindness appears right next to the word faithful or faithfulness. The two are together more than they are apart. So what does that tell us? Kindness and faithfulness are a package deal. If you’re going to be kind, you need to be faithful as well. Over and over again, people are thanked by other people in the Bible for their kindness AND faithfulness. True kindness won’t leave someone stranded or in need because it doesn't feel like helping out. True kindness is faithful and thinks about the other person, not itself. Gain isn’t a question when a kind deed is being performed.
Though kindness should not be done for your own gain, your kindness will be rewarded. The reward is an extra special blessing for those who are kind to others out of sincerity and generosity. Proverbs 11:17 tells us “that a kind man benefits himself, but a cruel man brings trouble on himself.” Proverbs 14:21 says, “blessed is he who is kind to the needy.” Proverbs 14:31 says, “whoever is kind to the needy honors God.” And Proverbs 19:17 says, “he who is kind to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will reward him for what he has done.”
Kindness IS a commandment, rather than a suggestion. 2 Timothy 2:24 says that the Lord’s servant must not quarrel; instead he must be kind to everyone. 1 Thessalonians 5:15 tells us to “always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else…” Ephesians 4:32 says, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Hmmm…so forgiveness is part of this whole “being kind” thing too. Let’s review this. We must be kind to everyone if we are going to be the Lord’s servant, and we must be kind to one another (including being forgiving) because that’s the example that Christ set for us. Maybe we should explore some into this example of God’s kindness…
The first thing that I noticed about God’s kindness when I was researching for this article was that it is described as unfailing. 1 Samuel 20:14 says, “But show me unfailing kindness like that of the Lord as long as I live, so that I may not be killed.” This is very interesting to me because sometimes it seems like we can grow tired of being kind to those around us. We feel like we’ve been so kind for so long already that we should get a break from it when someone frustrates us or at a time when being kind is a big sacrifice for us and is hard to do. But God’s kindness is unfailing, and He’s our example.
The next thing we learn about God’s kindness is that it extends even to those who are against Him. Luke 6:35, 36 says, “But love your enemies, do good to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your father is merciful.” God is kind even to those who are ungrateful…those who really don’t deserve it (can any of us say that we deserve His kindness anyways??). Now, God doesn’t approve of the wickedness, and He doesn’t reward them for it, (there’s still consequences) but He is still kind…merciful…compassionate to the people behind the sin. Following Christ’s example, we’re supposed to love our enemies and be kind to them even if they don’t deserve it. That’s really what kindness is all about; it’s not based on merit.
The book of Romans gives us two separate examples of how God’s kindness and sterness…His kindness and judgment co-exist and work together for His children. Romans 2:4 says, “…God’s kindness leads you towards repentance…” Then it goes on to speak about the day of God’s wrath, when God’s judgment will be revealed. We learn that this is “righteous judgment”. We find that in God’s kindness, tolerance and patience, He is leading us to repentance and thus eternal life with Him. Then we skip over to Romans chapter 11, verse 22. We’re told to “consider therefore the kindness and sterness of God: sterness to those who fell, but kindness to you, provided that you continue in his kindness. Otherwise, you also will be cut off.” I think it’s pretty simply put. God extends kindness to us all and it is welcome no matter what. His kindness leads us to repent and want to live for Him, but if we choose to turn away, there is a consequence. There is a judgment…a righteous judgment.
Kindness is a very important fruit for Christians to bear today. Why? If for nothing else, we should be kind because that’s the way God is and He is our example. He wants us to “clothe” ourselves in kindness, along with several other character traits that He has and we should strive to have as well. We are His chosen people, holy and dearly loved (see Col. 3:12). If we are His children, we need to live holy and do our best to follow Christ’s example. 2 Peter 1:7 also lists several character traits that we as Christians should have, kindness being among them. Verse 8 goes on to say, “for if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.” There you have it. Kindness is one of many “fruits” that when added together will keep you on the right track spiritually. Kindness can help you from being ineffective and unproductive. It keeps you serving the Lord in humility and being the awesome witness to the world that God wants you to be. Of course, there’s that part in there that says that you have to possess the qualities in increasing measure… In other words, you have to be growing and expanding in these character traits. You have to be actively portraying these qualities, not just possessing them.
In conclusion, true kindness is not normal in the world we live in. So your kindness will be more evident to those around you, and they’ll be wondering…they’ll be watching you. Acts 28:2 says that the islanders showed unusual kindness. Why do you think it was so unusual? Perhaps it was because of its nature. Most people in the world are only “kind” in order to get themselves something. Real kindness…the type the Bible talks about shines like a beacon in a dark world. It’s out of the ordinary, so people spot it right off.
There’s one last thing that I want to say. 1 Corinthians 4:13 says, “when we are slandered, we answer kindly.” Talk about unusual! Let me ask you something: When you are slandered (put down, belittled, mean things are said about you), do you answer kindly? That’s a hard place to get to. But I believe that it IS God’s will that we as His children and His servants do reach that point. This is where we differ from the world. In God’s plan kindness is not unusual, yet in the world it is. As God’s servants, we are to have kindness showing in our lives. Not just showing, but kindness is something that we should be actively producing. Now that you know a little more about kindness, put it into action. Knowledge isn’t everything. Without action, knowledge won’t help you a bit! God Bless, and have a good month! :)
PREVIOUSLY FEATURED FRUITS
LOVE
JOY
PEACE
Patience
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