Sadomasochists
talk about
their type of sexual activities
in terms of play and work.
The moment one makes it possible
for the partner, allows him/her,
gives consent to him/her to cross
the boundary
that separates
the agreeably disagreeble from the disagreeably disagreeable,
play becomes
reality,
and you have to be very careful and perceptive in that context
because reality might easily turn into
violance.
Bondage sexuality does not only play with freedom and constraint,
power and
powerlessness, but also with a sense of time.
By shutting out all other distractions, one`s attention
is reduced to
physical sensations and the way
passing time is percieved.
The bondage action may be determined
prematurely because
performer and audience
touch upon perceptual extremities.
© Mark Willuhn 1997
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