Boyfriend Or Bust


The desire to be with a special someone is cool-but the crucial buzzword is "special." You've got a tendency to commit to a guy just because he's an avaliable male, diving into the deep end of a relationship without finding out if he's right for you. Trouble is, if he's not, you wind up feeling more frantic than romantic, because you are despretely trying to keep something together that's not meant to be. After the ultimate breakup, you can get down on yourself and feel like a failure-which could lead you to hook right up with another Mr. Wrong, a nasty cycle. What might make someone clingy is the fear that she'll never be in another relationship again or that she isn't valuable enough for someone to want to stay with her, explains Sara Kenney, M.S.W., a psychotherapist in Los Angeles. The problem is, clinging to someone out of fear or sinking you own self-worth usually nixes any chance for building the kind of healthy relationship you're hoping for. Find out why you feel so insecure, and spend more time solo-it'll help you shake your case of static cling. When you're out doing things you enjoy, you'll not only exude confidence(very attractive)but come into contact with guys who share your interest and are more likely to bond with you in a big way.

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