One good link about choosing a prodomme is HERE

1. Show Up. This is important. She's put aside time for you that could be used for someone else. The least you could do is be there.
2. Be On Time. Making her wait is just plain rude.
3. Call If You Need to Cancel or Will Be Late
4. Make Appointments In Advance When Possible. This gives us a chance to be prepared properly for your visit.
5. Take Her a Gift. This doesn't have to be a big thing, a rose, a small box of GOOD chocolates. Just a tiny something to show that she is important to you.
6. Be Polite. Just because you are paying HER does not mean you can be rude or uncivil.
7. Answer Her Questions. She is usually asking them so she can determine what your needs and wants are. Be clear.
8. Negotiate as Equals. This is not the time to say, "Whatever you want, Mistress." You need to understand your limits and make them clear to her. Prodommes are not mind readers. Yaou have the right to have limits and express them. You also have a duty to tell her what YOU mean by submission.
9. Be Clear on Your Limits. Don't expect your dominant to share your limits. Everyone is different. If you can't be marked, tell her BEFORE you start playing.
10. Be Honest About Your Level of Experience. If you are a beginner, say so. Everyone was a beginner once.
11. Don't Demand. You ask for what you want in negotiation. Never interrupt a scene to make a demand.
12. Use Safewords. We give you safe words to use if necessary. Do use them when you need to.
13. Don't Top From the Bottom. Once you finish negotiating, let HER run the scene.
14. Be Clean and Neatly Dressed. Dirty is gross and probably will not get you a second appointment. I usually make a dirty guy shower. And don't give him credit for the time.
15. Internally Clean. If you are expecting to do anal play....it's polite to clean that area, too.
16. Tell her what you liked about the session and also what you would like to do differently next time. Most of us try to keep track of the client's likes and dislikes to improve the session.
17. Thank Her For the Session. Don't just leave. It's polite to say thank you.

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