I am both a lifestyle and professional dominant. I'm a mature woman in her mid forties, red haired and blue eyed. I am NOT a BBW domme, nor am I a glamour girl. I am an intelligent, experienced, and attractive woman. I'm not a hardbody; I'm real, not a fantasy domme. I love to laugh and tend to pet and hug my submissives rather than bark orders at them. I like to have FUN with this, after all, it's not brain surgery, we do it becase we enjoy it! And I feel lucky to be able to be doing something I enjoy as my vocation.

As for my household. I now own and live in a 24/7 relationship with one male submissive whom I truly love. My household also includes two cats, who domme EVERYONE who lives there or visits. I have also accepted a submissive for training who is now on probation. My household is a happy one, and we share many common interests. We enjoy art, music, and movies, fine dining, books, and poetry. Neither of us watches television. My darling Feynman is the artistic type, while I am more practical. I am not interested in adding to my personal household at this time, but, of course, I'm always happy to see you on my days at FantasyMakers in the North Bay Area. Just ask for Deia (Dee-yah) when you call. The number is (510) 234 7887. Call anytime from 10 am to 8 pm. Please remember that FantasyMakers cannot book appointments for me except at their facility. If you have questions, please send me email. I see clients at FantasyMakers on Mondays and Fridays. Other days by chance or by special appointment.

I adore all sorts of gloves, satin and lace things and peach colored roses, so if you want to bring me a small gift, those are always things I like.

I will not waste my time with anyone who expects me to fulfill their fantasies THEIR way. If you have a specific script in mind or you're looking for sex, find a hooker and have her enact this for you. Dominas, even pro dominas are not going to work from your script. Nor will we allow you to control the scene. Of course your limits, fantasies, experiences and likes are important to me, but if you want to experience submission, you DO have to submit. Topping from the bottom does NOT work with me. Even if all you want is a session of JUST BDSM to get that lovely endorphin rush, *I* am the one who has to demonstrate her artistry. I'm not going to work from a list. And really, would you be happy to have me just whack you six times with flogger X, then give you 12 strokes with cane Y, and then 15 strokes with paddle Z? I don't think so. I think that you might enjoy the sensuous caress of a soft flogger until your shoulders turns pink......and then perhaps, a faint tickling, swish of a scratchy reed and the sudden burn of a light spray of alcohol, followed by the feel of my satin gloved hands fluttering across your chest, pausing for a moment to tweak your nipple...or maybe the caress of a furry rabbit skin...but always a little surprise.

It IS important, however, that you are honest about your likes, dislikes, experiences, and limits. BOTH of us should enjoy the session, not just me, or you. If you can't tell me what you like, then you'll not have a good time. If what you like differs too much from what *I* like, then *I'll* not have a good time. So communication is important. Telling me what you want doesn't mean that I'll slavishly follow your script. My limits are very definite. I do not do scat play or heavy humiliation. Verbal humiliation more than very light is not something I do well. You of course understand that sexual activity such as intercourse or oral service in also NOT part of my activities. I only do things that are safe, sane, consensual and LEGAL. I've been told I'm a wonderful spanker. And I delight in all sorts of corporal punishment. My interests include foot worship, bondage, flogging, service, caning, crops, spanking, CBT, forced femme, forced exhibitionism, hot wax, adult "toddlers" and age play (not babies), and public play. Public play, since so many of you have asked, can mean things as diverse as doing a scene in a public D/s club, or as simple as perhaps your taking me to lunch with you in feminine apparel under your suit or perhaps some bondage applied to a sensitive area and designed to keep you aware of it while we are out in public. We don't upset vanilla people, but it can be fun to do something that only you and I know is happening.

If you find it exciting to cross dress or to be forced to cross dress, then why don't you visit me at FantasyMakers {(510) 234 7887} which has a fully equipped TV closet. I love to play at dressing up pretty girls. Or punishing naughty boys by dressing them in panties and giving them a spanking over my knee. Or even just spending a companionable hour doing makeup, picking out JUST the right outfit, and maybe having our own little tea party. I love to play with TV submissives. And I love having tea served to me by a pretty "maid" in a pretty little uniform.

I'm at FantasyMakers on any Monday or Friday afternoon, and sometimes on other days. For public play, San Francisco dungeons are usually available and I am invited to many private parties where I can take a submissive to show him off. Just imagine spending an evening on a leash on your hands and knees at my feet. I often do attend parties where this is possible. You understand that I won't take a submissive out of the house on a first visit. FIRST I need to get to know you and be able to know you can behave properly.

I am also considering opening a TV Closet facility somewhere in the Central Valley Area near Stockton. This would be a place where TVs could make an appointment to cross dress, have some help with their hair, makeup and nails, and possibly even meet with others of similar tastes for a little tea party or social gathering from time to time. Remember, this is all perfectly legal activity. I love helping TVs look their best. If this is one of your interests, why don't you write me and let me know what you would pay for this service, and how often you might patronize it; what you'd like to have available; what you would like in the way of social activities, if any; and ideas you have for making it a nice place to be. (By the way, if you are a TV and would like to dress up and go out to lunch, that is one of the things I love to do with my TV friends. I do appointments just for things like that.) I have recently begun email and postal training of submissives. Write to me if you are interested in this sort of training and tell me exactly what you are looking for. If I find you interesting, compatible, and worthy of training, I will reply.

A limited number of items such as photographs, lingerie, stockings and shoes that have been blessed by being worn by me are available in exchange for a donation. Write to me with your interests in these items and I will inform you as to what is available and what I expect in return.

Written petitions should include your fantasies, desires, limits, experience, and interests outside of D/s. One to two pages would be a proper length. And I expect you to explain why YOU are worthy of MY consideration.

If you're going to be visiting in the San Francisco Bay Area, and want to see me, write and talk to me about it.

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