Our accounts suggest that the old squire, Thomas,
must have been quite a character. He favoured young Henry Slade
considerably and felt the hurt when he left for Swan River. Doubtless he
had anticipated the young man marrying his granddaughter, Anne. Henry had
much more courage than any of the Fuller boys, he thought. Later on,
however, he starts to see Australia as an evil and corrupting place. He
also took rather a jaundiced view of his daughter’s behaviour. At one
point he opines that she should not have use of pen and ink because she
upsets people so much with her letters. According to Mrs Fuller herself,
she tended to tone down her tantrums when in front of her mother, so
perhaps her father stood no nonsense from his daughter either. He tended
not to let physical problems get in his way. Early in the letters we hear
of his suffering a bilious attack, but soon he gets back in the saddle,
literally, and carries on. His death in 1843 left a chasm, as his
daughter puts it, in the village and in the Meeting. She gives a moving
description of his last months.
He had gradually lost strength for the last
year and the frequent return of his bilious attacks weakened him. Still
he rallied, rode on horseback, drove us out in the chaise, gave out the
hymns without spectacles and entered into everything as usual. In August
the weather became very unusually hot. This prostrated him completely for
a time. He rallied a little, went once or twice to Meeting, rode on
horseback and in October drove himself to Wallingford. He took cold and
fever, again rallied. He was first confined to his room for three weeks
and then to his bed. Water on the chest rendering respiration so
difficult, it was indeed distressing to witness his agonies for ten
weeks. With no hope of recovery he could not desire his life… his hopes
were fixed on another world and his desire was to depart.
We can perhaps understand from this
description how his loss would have made a substantial impact on both
villages. The old man had reached eighty-six years of age. His daughter,
Elizabeth, braced herself for the quick demise of her mother, but she
lived on for almost another ten years.