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Will  Survive At first I was afraid I was petrified 
Kept thinkin' I could never live without you by my side;
 But then I spent so many nights
 Thinkin' how you did me wrong
 And I grew strong
 And I learned how to get along
 
 And so you're back from outer space
 I just walked in to find you here with that sad look upon your face
 I should have changed that stupid lock
 I should have made you leave your key
 If I'd've known for just one second you'd back to bother me
 
 Go on now, go walk out the door
 Just turn around now
 'Cause you're not welcome anymore
 Weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
 Did you think I'd crumble
 Did you think I'd lay down and die?
 Oh no, not.I. I will survive
 Oh as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive;
 I've got all my life to live,
 I've got all my love to give and I'll survive,
 I will survive. Hey hey.
 
 It took all the strength I had not to fall apart
 Kept trying' hard to mend the pieces of my broken heart,
 And I spent oh so many nights
 Just feeling sorry for myself. I used to cry
 But now I hold my head up high
 And you see me somebody new
 I'm not that chained up little person still in love with you,
 And so you feel like droppin' in
 And just expect me to be free,
 Now I'm savin' all my lovin' for someone who's lovin' me
 
 Go on now, go walk out the door
 Just turn around now
 'Cause you're not welcome anymore
 Weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye
 Did you think I'd crumble
 Did you think I'd lay down and die?
 Oh no, not.I. I will survive
 Oh as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive;
 I've got all my life to live,
 I've got all my love to give and I'll survive,
 I will survive. Hey hey.
 ~ Sung by Gloria Gaynor ~ 
 
"This song holds special significance to me....there were many a time I felt like this during my marriage to my previous husband and even after I left....But I survived!  Which is what this song is about - surviving!  I grew up with this song as a child and it never held much significance to me then (not that it should).  It wasn't until I read a novel by Joy Fielding called "Kiss Mommy Goodbye" (about spousal abuse and it's aftermath), that I read the words to this song in that book ~ and related to what this woman was feeling in her marriage.  Though the novel is fiction, it is too true of what happens in today's society. 
It's what helped me overcome the abuse ~ I Will Survive!  And I did!"
 
   
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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