Welcome to 102. This is the Reading and Recognization part of the program where we get in depth on basic playa skills.
Now the first thing is to know what you want. Everyone's taste is different and there is no wrong answer.
But a general problem in today's society is that people hold back. Rule number 1 is that you never hold back what you truly feel.
That only makes you a liar, to yourself. You channel that emotion towards the person you are wanting to be with.
Note I said person. Again many people think that a player has to talk to many women, but the purpose of talking to a lot of women is to not limit your search in finding that one true woman.
Same way with women. Its a very commonplace practice for a woman to have
male friends that they talk to and bounce ideas off of. This is all a part of the reading and Recognization part of the program.
Now you have decided what you true want. The next stage is to begin the recon.
Now a good lover knows his partner inside and out, thus is able to please her.
A true playa is a student of the body. You can also compare this to stalking the prey.
You analyze the person of your choice and study them. watch what makes them happy and what drives them to tears.
Watch what puts them on edge and what drives them wild.
How? Its written on their face. Watch the eyes and body motions.
With your recon done, the next step is to make contact. Chosing the approach that will indicate a lot of yourself, you arrange a meeting of some sort.
Make sure that you are very familiar with your surroundings because simply put, you never get a second chance to make a first immpression.
Utilize a familiar setting to make you more comfortable and therefore
less suseptible to mistakes of the heart. Put your best foot forward. From my expierience, the best case scenario is always to be upfront about your particular situation.
If you have a woman or man, tell them this. But make sure you include how much you have been looking forward to spending time with that person and where you stand in that relationship.
If that meeting was just a chill out moment then state that. If you are in the market for more than your current partner is willing to give then state that.
If your date is truly as into the moment as you may be then usually a prior relationship isn't a problem uness you indicate that it is a problem
Next thing is to keep applying pressure. If you have them in an indecisive state, don't give them too much space. Utilize the art of romance and whoo them.
Complement what they have done. Send them a single red rose from the heart. Serve them a candle light dinner in an exclusive spot away from everyone else.
Women as well as men can utilize the Romance protocols. The Romance protocols
state that
1. you should be able to touch the mind, body, and soul of your other.
2. Prove that you can please them mentally, physically, spiritually, as well as sexually.
A true Romantic utilizes everything in his enviroment to create an air of love and intense emotion.
This can be achieved with a thoughtful card, a kind word or a heartfelt greeting. This can be created with a thoughful surprise, and a new situation.
A great comment is one a woman told me after a breakup. She told me that when the relationship was over that she had done things with me that she had never done with another and probably
never do again. Of course this was a woman with whom many romantic moments but this is a complement to an innovative mind and a romantic heart.
From there you play the relationship by ear. Take each situation as they come while still aplying the Romance protocols. Romance is a continuous process that is always in need.
romance is what keeps old relationships thriving and resurrects the hearts of dead ones.
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