Family History
I was born, the youngest
of six children, on Easter Sunday in a small town in New
Jersey, to parents of English and
Irish descent. Some fifteen years earlier, my father, Joseph, enlisted in the army as a young man and served in post-World War II Germany. After completing his tour, he returned home and found work in a factory. He married and had four children by his first wife. She suffered an early
death, however, and their youngest son, Johnny, would also die soon afterward from childhood leukemia. My father remarried and had two more children, my sister and I, by his second wife.
Childhood
In 1968, when I was three, my father
moved the family to the island territory of Puerto Rico, where we lived for the next six years. I attended kindergarten and
elementary school, where I excelled academically and began learning Spanish. In 1974, sensing a change in the political
climate of the island, my father moved the family back to the
mainland -- first to Elmira, New York, and then to Streator,
Illinois, about 100 miles from Chicago. He had accepted a
job as an assistant factory manager, and the family spent the next four years in Streator. My half-brother Joey, upon graduating from
Streator High School, enlisted in the army and served for four years as a paratrooper in Fort Bragg, North Carolina.
In 1978, my father accepted a transfer and promotion to factory manager in Tampa, Florida, where the four of us (my
parents, sister and I) spent the next
eight years. At age 14, I began scuba diving and received my
certification in 1980. At age 16, I began working at
Busch Gardens, a theme park in Tampa. Along with coworkers, I began taking ski trips to West Virginia. In
1983, I graduated from Chamberlain High School and was accepted
to the University of South Florida. My sister, Robin, married in 1986. She and her husband would later move to
Atlanta, Georgia. My parents also moved, to a suburb
of Los Angeles, California, and then later to the San Francisco
Bay area, as my father continued his career in management. I stayed behind in Tampa to
complete my education while working part-time at Busch
Gardens.
Adulthood
In 1988, I graduated from the University of South Florida and accepted a full-time position in the accounting
department at Busch Gardens, where I had worked since high
school. After two years, though, I found office work unsuitable, and I left Busch Gardens to travel west to
California. Out of money, however, I soon returned to Tampa to work as a security guard in 1991. In 1992, I left Tampa and stayed with my parents, who had retired to the west coast of Florida. I worked as a sales clerk in a department store until finding a more permanent position in 1993 as an accounting technician with the Federal Bureau of Prisons in Miami, Florida. I lived and worked in
Miami for the next three years until accepting a transfer to Los
Angeles in 1997. I lived in Los Angeles for six months, and
rented an apartment in Venice Beach. Bored again with office
work, however, I quit my job and returned to Florida.
In 1998, I found
seasonal work as a Visitor Information Aid with the U.S. Forest
Service and moved to Wyoming. When the season ended, I found work
in Miami again, this time as a clerk with the Social Security
Administration. I returned to Miami in October 1998, and after a
year was promoted to legal assistant. Three years later, in
2002, I accepted a transfer to San Jose, California, which is
where I currently live and work, handling disability claims files
in an administrative hearing office. My latest hobbies include
learning to surf, oil painting, and taking trips to the Hawaiian
islands. My sister has since remarried and had a son, Logan. My
brother, Joey, also has a son, Jason, and they live in
Jacksonville, Florida.
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