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"Serious, disciplined, and
quietly ambitious, he was driven to prove himself and to achieve accomplishments
and success. His work, and contributions to society were very important
to him. He would persevere through enormous hardship and frustration
in order to reach a goal he had set for himself, and he sacrificed much
in the area of personal relationships and home life in order to do so."
"He had a thoughtful, quiet,
and self-contained disposition and did not readily show his inner feelings
and needs. He seemed to be always in control, capable, efficient,
and strong. He was highly conscientious and even as a child he possessed
maturity, soberness, and wisdom that was most unchildlike."
"He was basically a pragmatic
realist, and though he might have all sorts of dreams, ideals and colorful
theories, he felt that the ultimate test of a concept is its practical
usefulness. He had an innate shrewdness and business sense,
and there was a bit of the cynic in him as well."
"He was clear-headed, detached
and objective, and was not swayed by emotional dramatics. Often he
was authoritarian - strictly fair, but without mercy. Careful and
conservative, he played by the rules."
"He was subtle, understated,
quiet, deep, not easy to know intimately, and never superficial.
He was a modest person and sometimes overly self-critical. Giving
himself (and others) permission to feel, to play, to be spontaneous and
silly, and to be weak and vulnerable sometimes, wasn't easy for him."
"His strong points were his
depth and thoroughness, patience, tenacity, and faithfulness. His
faults were a tendency to be rigid and inflexible, and too serious."
"Clear, objective, and realistic,
he was unimpressed by exaggerated claims or promises. He insisted
upon being shown facts to back up any statement he heard. He approached
problems clearly and rationally and maintained his poise and objectivity
even in the midst of critical situations. Anyone seeking his advice
was certain to get an unemotional and unbiased assessment of their situation.
He was thorough, conscientious, and disciplined in his thinking, and had
an aptitude for organization, and administration. He was also a good
strategist, and would plan and patiently follow a realistic course which
would lead to his eventual success. Serious-minded and studious,
he enjoyed quiet time alone for thinking or reading."
"What's more? He tended
to possess both the friendly, engaging, sociable qualities as well as stubbornness
and obstinance. This often made him an original and entertaining
individual who had his own ways of thinking and doing things and was usually
reluctant to change their attitude, approach or behavior in order to conform.
He would powerfully resist things he didn't want to do."
"Find whatever direction the
current was headed in, and you would probably find him headed in the other.
This could sometimes put him a bit out of step with social norms.
But forward-looking he might be able to benefit from his unique and unorthodox
perspectives by putting himself out in front of the coming trends and riding
the waves of change before they hit most people's shores."
"He was humanitarian, keenly
interested in making the world a better place, and liked to help someone
he could along the way. He was a visionary, progressive soul who
loved to spend time thinking about how things can be better. He was
artistic and inventive. He wanted to make a difference."
"He showered the world with
his thoughts and ideas. While he was happy to bestow these
ideas as a gift with no strings attached, he was much happier when the
rest of the world agreed with him. Naysayers would quickly find out
that he could be impatient, even temperamental, with those who disagreed.
Yes, he could be quite fixed in his opinions. Even though he was
happy to give, it's often on his terms and within his comfort level.
Generally, that meaned ample space, since he was freedom-loving and individualistic
and needed to roam (and yes, he did enjoy travel)." |