Similar philosophies
No doubt those of you who have some familiarity with the wide world of sexual practices will note a similarity to Tantric Sexual practice in our program. One of the practices of Tantra does in fact include the concept of the male withholding his ejaculation.
Withholding ejaculation has its roots in Tantra; in maithunâ, it is important that the man not discharge his semen because it is considered a precious product of the life force. Semen is transmuted into a finer substance that nourishes the higher centers of the body, which prepares it for the spiritual transformation that is the goal of Tantra. In maithunâ, women may achieve orgasm during the ritual: her excitement produces a vaginal secretion that the experienced tântrika can then suck up through his penis. The female ejaculate is thought to enrich the tântrika's hormonal system, which further aids in his spiritual transformation
Leaving aside the metaphysical aspects of Tantra we can see that the concepts we are working with here are not totally dissimilar. One essential difference however is that this form of abstinence is self motivated. In other words although the male ejaculation is withheld as with our program, it is the male himself who decides if & when. The all-important and essential feature of our program is the principle that is the female who makes the decision about the timing of the male’s ejaculation.