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| OK enough ranting and raving about the book. I'm not one to shove something down anyone's throat. I just have learned so much about "why" I eat and "how" I eat. And who, as a child, was told "clean your plate and you can have dessert!" How many times have you told YOUR child that? I know I'm guilty of it. I've stopped doing that. I feel if they're hungry, they'll eat. Sweets are doled out in portions and not given on a daily basis. But if they are, sometimes, then it's ok. If I want to let my kids eat cake for breakfast one morning, it's ok. I don't want to let them feel any guilt. I know that one morning of having cake for breakfast does not an unhealthy child make. I am tired of those people who look down on me because I am giving my children something they'd never give their child. you are raising your child your way, and I am raising mine, my way. Neither way is wrong or right. Which is another revelation in my life. I've decided that I'm a good mom, my boys are happy and well adjusted. They all 3 have personalities that brighten anyone's day. They laugh and fight and play. They love their family. They're kind and considerate (most of the time) they're appreciative. They know they are loved. So where is the wrong in that? I refuse to let anyone make me feel that I am not a good mom, or that my kids aren't great boys! I know they are. I get compliments on them all the time, from complete strangers! No, my kids are not perfect. Yes they do things they know they shouldn't some times, but guess what!? They're KIDS. They have their own minds and are learning how to figure out their boundries, not only with me, but their own boundries. They push me to the edge sometimes, but not once have I ever wished I didn't have kids. I would do anything for them. I'm tired of feeling bad that Ryan doesn't have the vocabulary Austin had at 2. Ryan isn't Austin. Ryan is progressing greatly! And no one is getting hurt by it. He talks. He laughs, he runs and plays and teases and makes me laugh hysterically almost every day (he and Austin both) So what if anyone else thinks Ryan is "behind" I know he's not. I know he is right on track and right on time. I am proud of my boys. I am proud of everything they do. I know they aren't bad kids, they just have bad moments. Who doesn't? Even as an adult I need a time out sometimes. I've raised my kids without beating on them, hardly ever been spanked, and they're not tyrants who run all over us. When they try to push limits I am learning to remember, they're kids and won't always do that. All in all, my boys are great and if I do say so myself, they're more than great. I'm lucky I have them and I feel blessed every time I look into their big brown eyes. And every time I see their smiles. My kids don't fear me. I dont want them to. My kids have imaginations (boy do they ever) and they are spirited. I thank God every day for them. And I know they are all going to grow into men who care and love and respect people. What more could a mom ask for? So, anyway. I am going to include some pics of the boys, just so you don't forget how adorable they are =) CLICK HERE TO SEE THEM Enjoy and we'll see you tomorrow! "Say good night Gracie" "G'nite Gracie" |