MORE FUN!
Are you a fun dad?
Few roles in life are as important as being a father, and almost
none so difficult.
Fathers need to see their position in the family and fill it with
greatness. Children thrive in a climate of unconditional love,
approval, and predictability from their parents.
Perhaps you don't have a pattern for providing them for your
children, so you'll have to work at it even harder. Understand
that it's not convenient or easy to be a parent. It takes time
away from your personal interests and rest. But give that time
gladly and you'll reap the rewards.
You cannot yield to the common belief that because you worked
hard all day, the evening hours are yours. Your children have not
seen you all day, and they need to know you and spend time with
you.
How to be a Fun Dad:
- Find within you (or create it) the spirit of playfulness it
takes to be merry with your family. Recall that "a merry
heart doeth good like a medicine." (Prov. 17:22)
- Search for methods to play with the children as well as your
partner. Observe other dads, read, even watch TV for good
ideas.
- Remember, play blends with work. Work together on major
projects as a family. Collect jokes to weave into
conversation as you work together. Take time during long jobs
for a little treat and a review of accomplishments.
- Make yourself play games your kids love. You may think you
won't be able to endure it, but, with the right spirit, not
only will you endure it, you'll learn to love it.
Furthermore, you will find your children adoring you.
- Jesus probably had great fun fishing and walking on the
water. Try to think about how He would plan fun times with
your family if He lived with you. He does, you know!
From Fathering: A Practical Guide for Dads by Grace
Ketterman, M.D. Copyright (c) 1997 by Beacon Hill
Press of Kansas City, Mo. Used by permission. To
order copies call: 1-800-877-0700.
© 1997 vinebranch@hotmail.com
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