Assignments
This letter is written as a sample for the type of letter that defines the
'assignments' a Dominant provides to a Submissive to reinforce the
relationship when distance or other factors preclude close daily contact.
Be cautious in using this as your base. The sheer quantity of activities
can overwhelm a new submissive. It's better to start slower and build up,
or even to show the submissive this letter and ask for her (or his)
comments.
Dearest little one:
As our relationship deepens, though the distance for now remains the same,
I find it appropriate that I give you this letter of instruction to provide
stability, and points of reference, in your daily life.
As we both know, the distance between us prevents us from having the
minute-by-minute intimacy that most marks a flowering D/s relationship.I
hope that the actions you take in response to this letter will act as
constant reminders of my presence in your life.
These reminders will bring me into the forefront of your consciousness on
a regular basis each day, and serve to strengthen your devotion to me.
Knowing that you are doing these things will strengthen my dedication to
your well-being.
If any of the tasks here are too burdensome, or needed to be changed for a
valid reason, you are to write me a separate e-mail for each necessary
change, explaining the reasons behind your request.
Immediately after reading this letter, start an email with the subject "My
Submissive Diary Mon-Sun, [dates]" using the dates for this week. Each
night you will add at least 25 words to the email and save it to send later.
After you send it, each Sunday night, you will start another with new dates.
You will also print a copy of this letter and all diaries and place them in
a file folder marked "My Diary."
Beginning this week, each Monday is designated "Workday Fashion Day" and
"Coin day." On Mondays, in recognition of my dominance over you, you are
to take special care with your workday clothing. Unless there is a special
reason not to, you are to wear a skirt or dress to work, or out shopping,
etc. In addition, you are to wear a garter belt and stockings, not panty
hose, and are to wear them without panties. You are also to wear, in each
brasserie cup, directly in front of your nipples, a coin the size of a
quarter or nickel, whichever is more appropriate. At each even hour
during the day (8, 10, 12, etc.), or as soon as is possible afterwards, you
are to close your eyes, trap each nipple between the coin and a finger and
squeeze gently, thinking of me, for 15 seconds. If you are driving, or in
public, at that time, do this immediately after it becomes feasible.
Monday nights is for fingernail care. Each Monday night, you are to give
yourself a manicure, and a complete hand and finger grooming, so that you
maintain your hands in a manner that would make me proud of you, and will
cause envy in other Dominants for your level of self-care.
Tuesday is to be your "Riches" day. This is the day that you are to deal
with the 'money' issues that will make you financially strong. To begin
the day, you will take a new crisp paper bill (you may pick the
denomination) and place it inside the front of your panties laying flat
against your abdomen. The sensation of the bill crinkling inside your
panties as you move during the day will remind you that I have high
expectations for you in terms of financial responsibility as well as in your
other activities, in addition to making you think of me. Periodically
during the day, you are to consider things that will save you money and, at
the end of the day, you are to add to the diary email, one suggestion that
you think will help you create a sound financial base for yourself over the
years. I will approve or modify it as needed.
On Tuesday evening, you are to set aside the bill and the 2 coins from
Monday and all the loose pennies in your purse, and pockets, as savings.
When this amount reaches $40.00, you are to deposit $20.00 of it into a
savings account that you think of as your rainy day fund. If you do not
already have such a savings account, or the bank requires an opening deposit
of $100.00, then accumulate it until you have that much. If you 'borrow'
from this fund during the week for bus fare, gas, or lunch money, it must be
repaid on your next payday with 10% interest.
Wednesday is "Master's Day," the day that you dedicate to understanding
your need to submit to my instructions. Your physical reminder of my
presence on this day will be a necklace, chain or bracelet. You are to take
this bracelet, necklace, or chain and pin it to the inside rear of your
panties, so that it hangs between your buttocks. As you do on Monday, you
will touch the chain each even hour, or soon thereafter, tracing it's length
while thinking of me.
Wednesday nights is for shaving. You will draw a hot bath and soak in it
for an appropriate amount of time and then shave yourself. The extent of
shaving is to be set by me in periodic reviews. The purpose of this
activity is to insure that you are prepared for me on short notice.
Thursdays are "Body Awareness Days." Each Thursday, in order that you are
reminded that you have surrendered control of your physical self to me, as
well as your emotional self, you are to wear a small (or medium) sized
butt plug whenever you leave the house. The constant 'full' feeling will
remind you that this is one of the ways you have chosen to serve me to
fulfill your need for submission.
Thursday nights are education nights. You are to set aside 75 minutes to
read, or search the Internet on specific subjects that will broaden your
horizons, or you are to look into taking an adult education or college
course. This will balance your awareness of your mind with an awareness
of your body. A 50 word addition to the diary email is to be made each
Thursday telling me what you studied.
Fridays are for the expansion of your soul and strengthening of your
emotional well-being. On Fridays, the exploration of your need for
submission is the object of your activities. The physical reminder of
this will be a binding of your body under your clothing. You may select the
method you desire to be remind of your need for being surrounded by my
love for you. As a minimum for this exercise, you may take a roll of "3 /
4" inch wide adhesive tape and place 4 inch or longer strips, in a X-shape,
across your nipples which compress them slightly inward and 'fasten' the
nipples to your breasts. You may substitute a more restrictive binding,
such as a waist and crotch strap fastened in the style of Japanese rope
bondage, or any other bondage item I approve. Friday evenings are free.
Saturdays is "Beauty and Show Off day." This day is reserved for all
beauty tasks, in you and in your environment. Begin with cleaning your
apartment or living area(s) and doing laundry etc. Press one very
impressive outfit to wear out on Saturday night, and coordinate it with
jewelry and the appropriate makeup. Then proceed with a full body
preparation for an anticipated 'date.' This will include a facial, a
pedicure, scraping calluses if needed, eyebrows, skin treatments and hair.
Saturday night, you are to go out and visit at least 3 public places, even
if it is just to shop. You will be dressed in your best and as though you
were having the most important date of your life. You will report, in your
diary, any attempt by anyone to 'get to know you better,' be it a man or a
woman.
Twice a month (the first and third Saturdays) would will have someone take
pictures of you, or go to a photo booth. The purpose of this is to make
you feel that you are the desirable woman that I know you to be and to allow
me to take pride in the fact that others see you and think so to.
Sunday is reserved for shopping, lazy time and writing and updating your
diary. If you did your shopping earlier in the week, see the note below
for Sunday night. You must be sure you complete and print the week's diary
and prepare things that cannot go in the email for mailing. You will add
any pictures or other documents to the envelope and ready it to be mailed on
Monday. Copies of all diaries and documents are to be filed in your
folder.
Sunday night is organization night. You are to review your upcoming week
and make sure that you have shopping lists prepared for anything that you
will need during the week.
These tasks, my little one, will help to bring us closer together in our
thoughts and cement our relationship in a way that we are not able to do
as a result of our physical separation. I understand that they may infringe
on the things you usually do during these times, and for that reason I
accept that you have the right to request changes.
As you read this letter, know that you are always in my heart and that I
think of you constantly. Be of stout heart, my little one, as this
separation shall not be for all time and one day you will awaken in my
arms, there to remain forevermore.