Useful Rules and Information

My dearest student of BDSM Beverly,

Here is some useful rules and information

that many players like to do. Take your time

and read and enjoy then for what they are worth.

- Master Rick

1.The Master/slave relationship is a complex one requiring a serious

commitment to honest and open communication, and the practice of learned

responsibilities for the care and protection of each person's well being,

psychological, physical, sexual, social, and emotional health. you can

protect both you and your Master's participation through the use of

selected safe words (like 'yellow' and 'red') and gestures (such as tight

hand holds, wiggling of a limb, or opening of a hand). Don't ever be afraid

to use them or think that you are not supposed to - especially if you are in

your first experience. Expect to be tested by your Master so that you are

made aware of your limitations for your sake and His.

2.There is alot to learn, to develop and to discover in this type of

lifestyle: its traditions, customs, fashion, speech, etiquette, play, and

practices which may include bondage, discipline, punishment, sadism,

masochism, guidance, surrender, control, pain, aftercare, sensation,

sensuality, sexuality, spiritualism, respect, warmth, passion and love. It

is recommended that each person learns as much as they can throughout

whatever avenues are available (never being afraid to ask about anything you

are even the slightest bit curious or concerned about): similarly

interested friends, presenters and experts you get a chance to meet in the

'scene', books and magazines on related subjects including those who are

against the lifestyle, groups in your area who offer educational classes,

play parties, and conferences, any related fictional books of erotica and

fantasy, academic books on theatre, sceneplay and props, Internet websites

and FAQ's (frequently asked questions), first-aid classes, fetish fashion

outlets and those who carry leather, bdsm toys and tools of the lifestyle.

Failure to learn the proper use of the toys and tools of the lifestyle

can result in serious injury - so be careful. It is recommended that a

skilled person in edgeplay (activity, as mentioned in rule #128, requiring

extensive knowledge and skill where physical and psychological injury can

result if not done properly) and advanced first-aid be present should you be

engaged in such activities by your Master.

3.Each rule involves a multitude of meanings and different styles for unique

and personal application. Work with them. Read each one, ponder the

possibities, look seriously at the images they create inside you and allow

what you feel from each one to come into full bloom, get away from them, and

then come back and work on them again until you have put together the

ones that will become your mindset from which to live by, to seek out the

Master you crave to serve and to please and to love, or to become stronger

and more committed to the one that you have and with whom to share of

yourself through your creative application of them.

4.Consider these rules a part of what will become your crash course about

the Master/slave relationship and lifestyle, but realize they are not

conclusive, nor the only way to enter and to experience it, for there is

more to learn then from the rules that are listed here.

5.Begin slowly and build trust of each other's responsibilities, knowledge

and skills towards the level of control and the enslavement you crave. Spend

time communicating and negotiating your first few sessions with your Master

and especially before you commit yourself to a shared lifestlye. Take the

time to experience trial periods of commitment to a Master: a weekend, a

week, a month, a few months. Always have time periods where you can drop out

of submission, as if a third person, to discuss what is occurring between

you and your Master and how to move forward in meeting each other's needs.

Know that you can always leave - for no slave should live in a lifestyle out

of fear for one's life. The best of Masters will have an open door, unless

you, by Him, is seen as one who is no longer wanted as His slave. If that

should occur - know that there is always someone else out there who can take

His place so that you may be able to find the One who will allow you the

opportunity to submit. Know that you can also take a break from submitting

to a Master and can do so until you feel ready to submit again. There will

always be pleasure to draw from a

slave - regardless of your age, your figure or your physical health.

6.Consider tests for blood and sexually transmitted diseases should you

engage in usage where blood, urine and semen will be sexually or orally

exchanged. Engage in your roleplay or lifestyle safely using condoms,

dental dams, and latex gloves wherever and whenever needed for protection.

Your life may depend on these tests and practices. Don't be afraid to speak

to your doctor, clinic or hospital about your need for these tests or about

the results of your play from which you may suffer - they've seen and heard

more than you might imagine. Keep in mind that what you communicate with

your doctor is confidential (unless you live in those states where marks on

your body may be mistaken for the results of acts of domestic violence), and

that the more you can communicate about what you have received - the better

of care they will be able to provide you. you do not have to explain exactly

why the tests are necessary - just that you and a partner will be engaging

in sex where you feel such tests are necessary for your safety.

7.It is highly recommended that the use of drugs including alcohol not be

used during any part of a Master/slave relationship or at play parties where

activity requires careful and well thought out planning and execution such

as in bondage, being pierced, punished, disciplined, edgeplay, and other

such activities. Both partners will need their full faculties to experience

these activities safely and without reckless behavior. I would also caution

the use of tobacco in such activities.

8.Keep a journal for yourself to work through what you are feeling as you

progress towards and through the relationship you want and are in. Don't be

afraid to hear yourself through your writing. Let it flow like the freedom

you feel when you are in your slave space. Share only what you wish or what

you are allowed. Expect to receive assignments on what you experience so

that you both learn what to work on and how to progress. Don't be afraid to

share your journal with your Master, but do ask if you can have a private

one should you desire it.

Begin working with these rules by making your selections in the following

manner:

1.Select a place in a household where you feel comfortable in a kneeling

position while nude. The kneeling position should be performed as follows:

kneel attentively, toes curled forward, ankles touching or at least as close

together as possible, thighs touching, hands placed on top of the thighs

with palms down and fingers spread apart, the inside of your arms pushing

your breasts towards the middle of the chest with breasts in front of the

arms, the back arched to push the breasts forward and to give the torso good

curvature. If this position is difficult for you to achieve, then select a

nude position of your choosing whereby you feel a sense of submission as if

honorable to be in such a position whereby your form, as if secretly

displayed, could induce the touch of a Master's eyes upon you and gain the

envy of those females who may be present.

2.Place the rules at a level where you can read them without having to

change your position.

3.Remain in your position for a few minutes and then begin reading the rules

out loud in a kind of held back tone as if to do so quietly in a

confessional manner. Read all the rules whether you agree with them or not.

Try not to resist what you are feeling and let your thoughts run wild.

4.Spend several days reading the rules, at least once a day, in this manner.

5.When you are ready to make your selections, do so by positioning yourself

comfortably. Have what you will need to begin the process of working with

the rules: pens, pencils, plenty of paper, felt pens, a good writing

surface, and if needed: any food or drink you prefer. Clear away any objects

you feel will distract your from your thoughts. Add music to your

environment if you wish to and be sure the room is at a comfortable

temperature. you may also choose to work with the rules outside. But keep in

mind that the selection process of the rules may take several days to a few

weeks, so be sure to find the best environment for you to work in and to

return to.

6.Read each rule out loud, in whole or in part. Decide if the rule needs to

be changed in any way and rewrite it. Work with it until you find you can

identify with it, or that you have decided to eliminate it. Using a

numbering system or coloring scheme (with felt pens) mark each rule, or to

catagorize them before you tear apart the rules, or thereafter, keeping in

mind the following:

1.Will do. (without question)

2.Want to do. (but,... you have to be pushed or forced to do it because that

is what works best for you. It is not to come easy.)

3.Won't do. (under any circumstances: roleplay, lifestyle or otherwise)

4.Find questionable or problematic or troublesome, but possible if

interpreted or rewritten.

5.Need to do. (must have, even to the point that the relationship could not

work without it.) (Note: During your discussion with your Master you may

find that more than half of those you decide are 3's and 4's will turn into

1's, 2's or 5's pending His interpretation and execution of those rules, no

matter how you rewrite them or if you decide to eliminate them. Part of the

process is to challenge how well you know your 'self' and your Master, and

how your state of mind changes in His presence.)

6.Keep in the mind the rules are not in any particular order. This is done

on purpose since a slave must be able to adapt her behavior and creative

spirit to fit the surprises, changes, and challenges that will occur in the

lifestyle she has with her Master.

7.When you have finished your selection process - read those you chose for

1, 2, 4 and 5, in your kneeling or other position. Read them out loud in the

confessional tone about 1-2 times a day until the day comes when you can

discuss your choices with your Master, with whom the final decisions will be

made and for whom you may be required to display your creative application

of those rules chosen.

8.Remember: you are not required to memorize the rules you have selected,

but you will be expected to know of their context when questioned by your

Master. A hesitant response or an incorrect one could get you disciplined in

part for not remembering, but more for not staying focused on how you are to

behave. After you have been disciplined the correct and acceptable response

in reference to the rule should be told to you so that you will remember it

the next time.

9.Once your discussion with your Master is complete, it is strongly

suggested that you, with His permission, read your selections in an

acceptable position, nude, at least once a day, for at least 10 days.

Failure to do so without an acceptable cause or reason and you are likely to

get punished upon your next meeting with your Master.

10.you may record the rules you have selected for playback for use any place

where you need to hear them. ( I, the author, will allow one such tape per

person, not to be sold in any electronic format (ie.: tape, CD, removable

HD, or floppy) in any quantity.)

128 Basic slave Rules

1.i will serve, obey and please my Master.

2.Above all else my primary focus shall be to please my Master, hoping that

He finds me pleasing in all that I do, whether i am in His presence or not.

my Master knows of my potential, learning more about me in each day i am

with Him. He trusts that i will act in accordance with what He percieves of

my potential - He knows what is best for me and how important it is that i

set a good example for other females who may be present around me.

3.i worship my Master.

4.i worship my Master's body.

5.The power of my Master fills me with awe. Just the sheer thought of Him or

the hearing of His voice gives me strength.

6.To receive pleasure i must earn it.

7.i worship my Master's whip.

8.i trust my Master: His responsibilities, His skills, His hunger and needs,

and His concern for my safety, my emotional, psychological, social, sexual,

and physical health.

9.i am nothing more than an object of great value - an instrument Master

will use to draw out His pleasures.

10.i will ask my Master for permission to satisfy whatever need i have

before acting on it.

11.my body and mind are the property of my Master.

12.i must always give thanks to my Master for all i am given immediately

after receiving what He has given me, for such things are gifts or

privileges granted to me by Him.

13.i must be both specific and explicit in my speech.

14.i will not hesitate when responding to my Master. my focus is important

to my growth.

15.i will thank my Master for the discipline and punishments i receive,

specifying what i received and expressing the reason as to why i was given

them.

16.i have no will of my own other than that which falls within the context

of the rules i have selected and of that which is needed to persue the

ambitions i am allowed to seek out as according to the permissions i have

received from my Master. i will report to Him my progress in such matters to

receive His favor or His guidance in making whatever steps may be required

to move ahead so that i am successful.

17.i am always in submission to my Master whether He is present or not,

ready to please Him at anytime, in any place, under any circumstances,

regardless of who may be present. For the opportunity to submit and to

please is by far more important and satisfying than any other pursuit. i

trust my Master will keep me safe, protecting His reputation and mine in the

presence of others, as He examines my ability to present myself to Him and

to others in a subtle manner when required to protect our lifestyle from

those who may not understand, nor support, as long as our behavior is not in

anyway misrepresented nor misinterpreted by those who may be afar. i am to

set, once again, a good example, ready to explain my position to others when

required to do so. my lifestyle is a part of a growing culture for which i

must never forget that i am an integral part.

18.All my choices shall be based upon whether or not they will please my

Master.

19.When i am not in the presence of my Master and i have choices to make - i

will perform them to the best of my abilities and within the boundaries and

guidance He has allowed me.

20.i shall wear the collar my Master gives me with pride for it signifies

His ownership of me and my devotion to Him.

21.i shall wear the chains my Master gives me as a symbol of my position in

life - that of bondage to Him. i shall wear them, as required, around my

neck, my wrists, my ankles or around my waist.

22.When i am ready - i shall wear His rings to signify my submission to Him

- one pierced through each nipple of my breasts and one through each labia

of my pussy.

23.my mouth shall only be referred to as a cunt for it will often be used as

if it were a pussy.

24.my sex shall only be referred to as a pussy.

25.When the cock of my Master is put into my cunt and i am directed to suck

it - i will do so vigorously as long as i am required to do so. my hands

shall be placed on the tops of my thighs, behind my neck or held at the base

of my back so that during the sucking i can use my whole body to display my

hunger to my Master.

26.my Master's cum must never go to waste - i will swallow all of it when

Master cums into my cunt (and be punished should I spill any of it from my

lips), licking it up if Master cums into my hands or into a plate i hold in

front of Him to receive it, or onto the food He gives me which He may

require of me to hold just under His cock as He ejaculates over it. i will

clean His cock thoroughly squeezing out every last drop. In rare and

privileged cases i may wear my Master's cum on my body, sometimes after

massaging it into my skin. Cum is a gift from my Master and it is an honor

to receive it. The eating of my Master's cum will be counted as one of my

meals for that day.

27.i worship my Master's cock, its head and its shaft, especially when it is

hard or when i am given the opportunity to make it hard for Him.

28.i will worship my Master's ass only after a thorough washing of it. i

shall do so hungrily, being sure to lick between the cheeks for as long as

Master requires me to do so. i will use my hands to spread my Master's

cheeks apart.

29.i will never look into the eyes of my Master without his permission. To

do so would be inappropriate of my position, and doing so could be

interpreted by Him that i am seeking His attention or expecting Him to act -

when such things are up to Him and to Him alone.

30.my head must be bowed down in the presence of my Master unless i am given

permission to do so otherwise. i honor the position of my Master and it is

important that i am not distracted in my submission to Him.

31.my eyes must be cast down in the presence of my Master unless i am given

permission to do so otherwise. i am to focus on my behavior, waiting to act

appropriately and without hesitation when directed to do so by Him.

32.i must always wear revealing and sexy clothing of good taste around my

Master unless given permission to do so otherwise. The clothing i wear will

allow easy access to my pussy, ass and breasts. The clothing will emphasize

and often exaggerate my assets. i will wear such clothing in any kind of

weather. How i present my body to Him or in front of others is more

important than my discomfort and insecurities.

33.When others show an interest in what i am wearing i must ask them if they

would like to see more and then gladly show them what they would like to see

- but only after i have received permission from my Master - for i trust my

Master's judgement that such a display is not only reasonable but is safe to

do.

34.i must remove all of my clothing in the way i have been taught when

Master commands of me to do so - regardless of who may be present and

despite where it is i am - i trust my Master.

35.When i remove clothing from my body it must be folded neatly and placed

in a small pile in front of me just ahead of my feet or my knees if i should

be required to be in my kneeling position after unclothing myself.

36.my basic attire in the presence of my Master shall consist of a collar

and my highest heels. The rings of my submission, if i have been pierced,

must also be attached to my body, as should the chains He has given or

allowed me to wear.

37.my legs, underarms and pussy must be kept completely shaved smooth and

clean so that nothing of me is hidden from view.

38.Unless otherwise given permission - my hair must be kept up in a manner

that is ravishing so that my shoulders and the nape of my neck are fully

exposed - especially when i am naked. It is important to Master that i

appear not just attractive, but alluring and desirable.

39.Whenever i need to pick something up or receive something from someone

else i must do so wherever possible by going into a kneeling position to

show that i am honored to do so. i will perform this motion according to how

Master has taught me.

40.my pussy and ass must be thoroughly washed and of a good aroma at all

times, if even perfumed, but especially before serving my Master.

41.my "place" is on my knees before my Master, for it is a privilege and

honor to be His slave.

42.When in the presence of my Master, but not in use, i will go to the place

He has selected until i am needed by Him.

43.my greatest felt satisfaction is realized when i know i have pleased my

Master.

44.There can be no greater pain or suffering i can feel then when Master is

not pleased with me. Naturally i will feel depressed, saddened, empty, and

lost. i can only hope He will show His mercy upon me and provide to me the

guidance i will need to be put back on track so that i will be forgiven and

once again be allowed His eyes upon my flesh, His touch upon my soul, and

His warmth and love upon my heart.

45.my submission is a natural inborn feeling, and at times a surging and

powerful force inside me that only a respectable and knowledgeable Master

can recognize, control and manage, for a He understands how my nature

influences my behavior and how temptations to act outside of its drive can

easily lead me astray and away from my primary focus: to please and to be

found pleasing. He, too, manages and controls His Own natural state, sharing

with me through a power exchange between us, bonding me tightly to Him, His

needs with mine. my submission to such a Master allows for me to feel more

aware and alive inside and out, bringing me to a feeling i cherish: ' at

home '.

46.i fear no other power for my Master is always with me.

47.i will not hesitate in my obedience to my Master.

48.Whenever Master speaks, even when i am speaking, i am to immediately

become silent so i may be able to listen intensely to what He has to say. i

must never interrupt Him unless He has shown me how to communicate with Him,

if i need to. i must ask first for His permission to speak, specifying to

whom i would like to speak to, and whether or not i may be allowed to speak

freely - then and only then, if granted, may i say anything more than asking

first to speak.

49.The opportunity to please my Master is very important to me and i will

take every chance to seek out such opportunities to do so to the best of my

abilities and in accordance to how i have been taught or allowed to do so.

50.i choose willingly to be treated as my Master's property - as long as

such treatment is safe and legal.

51.When Master feels i am ready and our relationship has progressed to a

lifelong commitment, i shall be specially prepared to receive His unique and

permanent mark of ownership upon my flesh, in a place of His choosing,

whether it be a piercing, a tattoo or a branding. Thereafter, i shall become

His property and slave in the most strict sense - completely His for as long

as the relationship continues to be managed and controlled in the manner in

which is beneficial to each of us and in accordance with our mutually shared

natures.

52.i am my Master's greatest treasure.

53.i will learn all the positions my Master wants to teach me to the best of

my abilities and will be prepared to take such positions when required and

to display myself in a manner through them that He, and others who may be

present, will find most pleasing.

54.i must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Master.

Failure to receive properly asked for permission and i will endure the

punishment Master will put upon me without my safeword. Such pleasure must

be seen as a privilege so that i do not take advantage of it.

55.The safeword given to me by my Master can be spoken at any time - even

when i have been told to be silent. If i am not able to verbalize it - i

trust my Master will show me how i can express it. Safewords are for my

protection as well as His. i must be careful not to take more than i can

handle, as He will need to know when to stop from getting carried away with

His own passions - so that i may be prepared over time to endure more for

Him.

56.my safeword, verbal or otherwise, cannot be used when i am being

punished. i must remember that punishment could never be very effective if i

were able to control it - i must take it in full measure - so that i will

focus on the correction of my behavior for the long term, for unlike

discipline, punishment is not what i will want again. i should know better.

However, safewords can be used when i am being disciplined - Master will let

me know which is which when the time has come that such treatment is

necessary to correct my behavior.

57.i must confess to my Master when i have been naughty so that He may

decide if such violations require me to be disciplined or to be punished. i

must accept whatever decisions He makes by thanking Him for His choice - if

He allows it before or shortly thereafter, specifying as to why i will be or

have been disciplined or punished. i must focus upon how sorry i am for not

behaving in the way in which i have been taught - for i have brought

defilement upon myself and to Him an unacceptable act which is displeasing

to Him.

58.i realize Master may own more than one slave, if He so chooses, and that

i, unless allowed by Him, may never be able to have another Master other

than Him, accept by His choosing to further my training. i trust Master will

take whatever precautions are necessary to keep the slaves He chooses to own

sexually healthy and to provide whatever measures are necessary to protect

us from the eruptions and ravages of any jealously which may try to corrupt

the relationships our Master has allowed between each of us - including the

one we each have with Him.

59.i must never be concerned when i feel too much of my flesh is showing, in

private or in the general public - however, i can ask my Master for

permission as to how to handle my discomfort.

60.i am a female slave - of worth and value to any Master who would find me

useful. my role has been clearly brought into definition through my ability

to recognize and to act accordingly with my true nature, enhanced through

the teachings of my Master, and through the continued practice of my primary

focus, and my search for every opportunity to do so.

61.my Master will decide what my sexual orientation shall be. i will commit

myself to His decision and perform as such only in His presence and only

with His permission. i know my performance will be measured and corrected as

He sees fit should i be required to attend to, provide myself to, perform

with, or upon another female slave.

62.i must tell my Master if i have had an orgasm without His permission so

that i can be properly punished for my disobedience and disrespect.

63.Pain and pleasure shall be with me always - in my thoughts and my

fantasies - for the contrast strengthens me to behave in the manner my

Master expects of me. Such thoughts and fantasies are tainted with the

memories i have from the last time i was in the presence of my Master. He is

with me always.

64.my limits do not have to be respected - i trust my Master to take me past

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