BDSM
As with all things...there are
myths...half truths....then fact and truth...it is up to each of us to
find out where each lies. In the case of BDSM there are a
great many myths...horror stories...and lies...seldom are we told the
truth or do we hear the good stories.
I have recently become interested in BDSM and I had a rude awakening. The things that I had heard about and read in connection to this practise were for the most part urban legand. I have met many people who are the kindest, gentlest people you would ever want to know. To be in the company of and accepted by many of these people I consider an honor.
If you are interested in finding out more about the actual craft of BDSM then you should start by reading and reading and then read some more...learn...talk to people...there are many groups and lots of reading material on the internet...so before you step into the life you need to know what you in actuality are stepping into.
This is a lifestyle...people from all walks of life are involved in it...most are learning the balance between pleasure and pain. The learning curve for BDSM is never ending. If you are looking for a quick bedmate this is the wrong place to be. There is no more loyal allegiance than a Master for his submissive or a Mistress for her submissive. For one to totally submit to another there must be total trust on the part of each. There are not many things that require as much trust as this relationship does.
For those not aware of what BDSM stands for it is Bondage/Dominance/Sado-Masochism . Each is its own seperate entity...and depending on our desires they can be combined. You can go from the very soft...to the very hard. For each person the degrees are different. To each his own.
Please remember...live and let live...if this is not your scene...that is fine...but it is also fine if it is mine. Read ...learn....do not judge!
The two graphics that are on this page have been made for me by two very dear friends...they are very special to me and are not to be copied for any reason. Thank you for your respect in this matter.
I have recently become interested in BDSM and I had a rude awakening. The things that I had heard about and read in connection to this practise were for the most part urban legand. I have met many people who are the kindest, gentlest people you would ever want to know. To be in the company of and accepted by many of these people I consider an honor.
If you are interested in finding out more about the actual craft of BDSM then you should start by reading and reading and then read some more...learn...talk to people...there are many groups and lots of reading material on the internet...so before you step into the life you need to know what you in actuality are stepping into.
This is a lifestyle...people from all walks of life are involved in it...most are learning the balance between pleasure and pain. The learning curve for BDSM is never ending. If you are looking for a quick bedmate this is the wrong place to be. There is no more loyal allegiance than a Master for his submissive or a Mistress for her submissive. For one to totally submit to another there must be total trust on the part of each. There are not many things that require as much trust as this relationship does.
For those not aware of what BDSM stands for it is Bondage/Dominance/Sado-Masochism . Each is its own seperate entity...and depending on our desires they can be combined. You can go from the very soft...to the very hard. For each person the degrees are different. To each his own.
Please remember...live and let live...if this is not your scene...that is fine...but it is also fine if it is mine. Read ...learn....do not judge!
The two graphics that are on this page have been made for me by two very dear friends...they are very special to me and are not to be copied for any reason. Thank you for your respect in this matter.
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