Experts
agree the single most important step toward ensuring your personal
safety is making the decision to refuse to be a victim.Criminals
prefer easy targets. You stand a much better chance of preventing
criminal attack if you make yourself difficult to prey upon. That
means you must have an overall personal safety strategy in place
before you need it. These security and rape prevention tips are
to help you understand how a bad guy or criminal thinks. This will
offer you some common sense techniques and tactics to avoid being
a victim and statistic. Be sure to study and retain this information
and pass it on to other people you know of to help them protect
their family and themselves as well.Understand how criminal predators
think. Why do some criminals want to harm you? For many, it's a
sense of power. Often, their control over you during a rape or attack
is in direct response to the shortcomings in other areas of their
lives. The NRA Refuse To Be A Victim Course and others such as:
Ju Jitsu Self Defense Videos teaches precautions you should take
to avoid criminal predators and what steps to take should you come
in contact with one. "Don't Wait Until Its Too Late"
Home Security
1. Consider installing a home security system. A home alarm can
be an effective deterrent to criminal intruders. A variety of systems
are available, ranging from inexpensive, battery-operated door models
to monitored, motion detecting systems costing several thousand
dollars.2. Never open your door to a stranger. Criminals can get
a good look at you and your home by posing as a door-to-door salesperson,
a neighbor who has lost a pet, or a floral deliverer at the wrong
address.3. Install a wide-angle door viewer. These are an inexpensive
aid for identifying people at your doorstep. If children are allowed
to open the door under certain circumstances, install a second viewer
at your child's height.4. Never tell a stranger that you are home
alone. If they ask for your husband or the man of the house, tell
them he is taking a nap and cannot be disturbed.
5. Do not broadcast your plans in public where others can overhear.
Burglars can use this information to determine whether your home
might be an easy target in your absence.6. Keep your house or apartment
well lit. Use exterior sensory night-lights and interior lights
plugged into timers to create the illusion of an occupied home at
all times.7. Do not leave windows open or uncovered. Prevent casual
observers from looking directly into your home. During the day,
draw drapes or position blinds to allow only enough light for plants.
At night, cover your windows completely.8. Keep trees and shrubbery
around your home well trimmed. Overgrown bushes and trees often
provide excellent hiding places for criminals.9. Plant defensive
shrubbery around your home, especially beneath windows. Bushes that
feature thorns or stiff, spiky leaves are not good hiding places
for criminals.10. When moving into a house or apartment, always
change or re-key the locks or have the tumblers reset. Otherwise,
the previous resident - and anyone they supplied keys to has unrestricted
access to your home.11. Never hide an extra key under a mat, in
a flowerpot, or in any other easily accessible place. Criminals
know all the hiding places.12. Lock your doors when working in your
yard, attic, laundry room, or any place away from your home's entry
areas. While you are busy elsewhere, burglars could easily enter
your home unnoticed.
Phone Security
1. Do not give information to strangers on the telephone. Thieves
often target homes using information obtained from telephone surveys.
2. If you use an answering machine, do not announce your name and
number as part of the message. Avoid giving criminals any information
about you. A common mistake is revealing your exact whereabouts
in a message.
3. Consider keeping a separate line or cellular phone as a security
device. Taking one phone off the hook renders other units on that
line inoperable. Using a separate line or cellular phone in your
bedroom is a good precaution.
4. Never give important information like travel plans or credit
card numbers using a cellular phone. For under one hundred dollars,
anyone can buy scanning equipment and listen in on your cellular
phone conversations.
Automobile Security
1. Always have your keys out and ready before leaving a building
to approach your car. Fumbling through your purse for keys after
you've reached your car provides criminals an excellent opportunity
to sneak up on you.
2. Look around and in your car before entering. If you are concerned
for any reason, simply walk past your car instead of getting into
it.
3. Use a two-piece key ring with your car keys separate from your
other important keys. Give parking valets or mechanics your car
keys only. Supplying your entire set of keys creates an opportunity
for duplicates to be made.
4. If your vehicle has tinted windows, use the reflection to scan
the area to either side and behind you. By being alert to your surroundings
you could avoid a potentially dangerous situation.
5. Lock your car door immediately after entering the vehicle. Make
this your first action - even before putting the key into the ignition.
6. Check your surroundings before getting out of your car. If something
or someone strikes you as out of place or threatening, drive away.
7. If you are involved in an accident, stay in your car until police
arrive. In minor accidents where the other driver suggests you exchange
insurance information, simply hold up your driver license and insurance
card against the window.
8. Consider acquiring a cellular phone. Using a cellular phone is
an effective means of keeping help close at hand during accidents,
breakdowns, or other roadside emergencies.
9. If you are accosted in a parking lot, away from your own vehicle,
consider rolling underneath a nearby auto. It is difficult to force
anyone out from under a car.
10. Make a practice of filling up your vehicle when your gas tank
is about half empty. Never let it get so low that you are forced
to stop for fuel, particularly at night in an area with which you
are unfamiliar.
11. Lock your car and take your keys when you get out to pump gas.
Leaving the door unlocked and the keys in the ignition invites a
car jacking.
12. Never pick up hitchhikers. It is never safe to have a stranger
in your car.
Physical Security
1. Maintain your personal space. Stay alert! If a person moves inside
your comfort zone, move away. If that person persists, run.
2. Be alert when leaving stores or shopping malls. This is a time
when criminals know you are carrying cash, checkbooks, credit cards,
or valuable merchandise.
3. Don't use outside ATMs at night, or in unfamiliar or unsafe surroundings.
This is another time when criminals know you are carrying cash.
4. Avoid filling your arms with packages. You might have to make
more trips, but keep one arm and hand free whenever possible.
5. Avoid stairwells in parking garages. Try walking down the auto
ramp instead. As long as you watch for cars, the ramp is much safer.
6. When on the street, walk facing oncoming traffic. A person walking
with traffic can be followed, forced into a car, and abducted more
easily than a person walking against traffic.
7. If asked for directions by a driver, stay far enough away from
the car that you can turn and run easily. An alternative is to simply
state, "I don't know" and keep walking.
8. When friends drop you off at home or work, ask them to wait until
you are safely inside before leaving. Extend this courtesy to your
own friends when driving them to a destination.
9. If you are on an elevator and someone threatening gets on, quickly
step off the elevator. Otherwise, press several buttons for upcoming
floors and get off at your first opportunity. (Do not press the
STOP button.)
10. Approach with extreme caution any entryway where normal lighting
is not functioning. Removing, unscrewing, or breaking bulbs in such
places is a common tactic of criminals.
11. Carry several dollar bills folded inside a ten dollar bill.
If accosted in a robbery, you can throw the "chump change"
several feet away and the robber may scramble after it, allowing
you a few moments to escape. Self Defense Physical TrainingConsider
taking a self-defense course. A wide variety of courses are offered
for self-defense and each should be considered carefully for relevance
to your own personal situation.
Personal
Protection Devices
Choose a personal protection device best suited to your situation.
Personal protection devices range from sophisticated alarms for
your home and car to defensive sprays and key chains you can carry
in your purse.
Firearms, A Personal Choice
Make an informed choice about firearm ownership. Firearm ownership
is a deeply personal and profound decision. NRA does not promote
firearm ownership. We only advocate your constitutional right to
choose whether to lawfully own a gun. For women who do choose to
exercise that right, NRA offers information on the pros and cons
of ownership, types of firearms, legal issues, and education and
training for responsible use and safe storage of firearms with children
in the home.
Develop Your Own Personal Safety Strategy
These are just a few steps you can take to avoid becoming a victim
of violent crime. For a more in-depth study of these and other safety
measures, attend an NRA Refuse To Be A Victim Course in your area.
You will not be encouraged to own a gun. You will not be encouraged
to join the NRA. You'll simply get the expert instruction and important
information you need to develop your own personal safety strategy-confidentially
and without obligation. Personal safety is not always convenient.
You must consciously integrate the options you choose into everyday
life until good habits are formed. Remember, criminals prefer easy
targets. The more difficult a target you present, the less likely
you are to become a victim.
Some Additional Security Tips
1. If you are followed drive to a well lit and populated area &
take good notes of vehicle following you ie; license plate, color,
make & model, etc.
2. When blow drying your hair or taking a shower lock your door,
set your resident alarm, place your dog in home to alert you should
someone attempt to gain entry.
3. When a store representative asks you for your address, telephone
number or other personal information advise them you do not wish
to give any if absolutely mandatory write it down and put confidential
on the top of it because there are people or the criminal is in
line or around also and may hear what you are saying as well.
4. If permitted by law within your states you may be allowed or
want to carry mace, stun gun etc, if permitted this is any excellent
defense tool should a criminal lowlife attempt to attack you.
5. Always let someone know where you are and where you may be going,
you should report all unusual stalking or following of you by any
suspicious persons.
6. Get an unpublished telephone number if possible and avoid from
giving your number to the wrong person, give only responsible people
your number and keep track of whom you have given it to.
7. Practice self defense, conditioning, run, exercise regularly,
meditate, study, learn and build mental, spiritual, and physical
strength by applying yourself building your attention span and other
important qualities.
8. Be aware of any unusual people, cars, occurrences which can worsen.
Take good notes and advise family, friends, police.
9. When parked in traffic keeps doors locked as usual and leave
yourself enough distance from the vehicle in front of you should
a criminal attempt to walk alongside your vehicle and gain entry
or attack you.
10. Look in your rear view mirror as well to also avoid from being
rear ended by someone not paying attention or possibly a drunk driver.
11. When travelling to and from places use different routes of travel
within reason so that the low life criminal cannot know or track
your travel routes. Be sure to always tell someone, ie:, family,
close friend, significant other what ways you may go should you
not arrive home.
Finally, amongst other important things, be aware of your surroundings,
know who you real friends are, be cautious but yet use good common
sense. Don't ever be afraid to make a police report or tell a significant
other, ie; family, police, close friend that you are being stalked,
followed, or something uncomfortable is happening. Dont wait
until its too late, "Protect your Family Protect Yourself".
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