MEN-FOR-MEN CHAT ROOMS
These are sites which my friends have used. That said, this review is strictly one man's humble opinion; there is no express or implied recommendation or exclusion of any site.
Sexual fantasy is essentially cerebral and, while it takes some practice and imagination to lure and maintain contact with men in a given chat episode, it's likely he's wants to achieve the same result as you do. Whether your stats are 100% or 50% honest, read into the dialogue what you will and (as Derrick says) "let progress proceed" and have fun.
While I do not trick off the internet, here are some suggestions if _you_ do: IF your chat leads to the option of meeting personally, either immediately or later-planned, unless you can establish with certainty the identity of your partner, never meet initially in private. If he's good enough to trick with or meet with, do it in a public place for safety's sake. (A bar would be optimum, of course, since, if he's not your cup-of-tea, there might be others there willing to assist you in your time-of-need -- LOL.) One buddy always told me (and it's the best advice, too) to leave a note indicating the name, contact info, and meeting specifics in a safe place before going out and, finally, calling a friend to identify its placement location. That way, if something goes wrong --- and we all take that chance now and then --- there is some vital information for your local law enforcement agency studs to have for reference. (While it's cute to say "dial 911 to make a cop come," I should like to think that a buddy would have taken the time to sketch out the details of his perversion excursion so that the son-of-a-bitch who left him out wandering in the woods might be dealt with in a suitable manner.) Sorry to mention the dark side of life, but it's real. These days, don't play with anyone you don't know well enough to call by name and, hopefully, by telephone at the home or work.
As far as I'm concerned, so-called 'anonymous' personal sex is bullshit. If that sort of activity is thrilling for you, that's great, but go to a private club, bath house (as we used to call them), or public nudist area [yes, there are such designated areas in the United States] where others are present. Stay out of the parks and public restrooms where handsome undercover vice officers are on duty and anxious to make an arrest! All more reasons to master the gentle art of cyber and, thereby, learn the finesse of interpersonal exchange ... who knows, it might come in handy on a DATE to be able to listen effectively and speak appropriately.
AND NOW, ON TO THE CHAT ROOMS:
GAY SEX CHAT ROOM
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THIS SITE IS GOING STRONG EVERY HOUR OF EVERY DAY!
(But don't be surprised when the system refreshes at the
third quarter-hour and everything --- chat and pix --- disappears.)
Don't get out to purchase or rent videos anymore?
No problem; you'll see more here than one could ever imagine.
Just remember to keep hitting the RELOAD radio button so that new pix continue to post. You'll read the discontent of users with low RAM who complain of multiple-pic posters, but, too, after all is said and done, there are more great adult pix to enjoy.
(To learn how to post pix, see HOW TO POST PIX USING HTML CODE.)
TIP: After the page has loaded completely and the "done" indicator appears at the bottom of your screen, third-mouse-click on the page and then click on the "get info" option. A new screen will open with URLs for each of the pix that are posted on the page at that moment. This is an effective time-saving option for those of you who will want to block the numerous URLs and copy them into an e-mail message which may then sent to yourself. Later, after new e-mail messages are loaded in the mail program, one can leisurely click on each URL within that mail message to see individual pix which had previously been posted on the site and, from the individual website, save to the hard drive.
GAY.COM MEN'S CHAT (Geographical)
http://www.gay.com/pages/chat.shtml
Each of several geographical floors is comprised of numerous rooms. Each room, however, has a limit of 40 users, so hunting for suitable chat partners may be something of a chore. All in all, this site has the best advantages for making good contacts. (Chief among these are 'city' rooms arranged by states on the 'regional' floors.)
U.S.A. Men, Central/Mountain Region Floor
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Nevertheless, some of the more festive rooms (aside from your state or city room) are Locker Room, College Corner, Mature Men, and, of course, Phone Fun. Some rooms (such as Intellectual Men) have regulars who are there only to amuse each other, so don't get your feelings hurt if your pick-of-the-minute ignores your chat request. It's rough getting started, but, once in a room, read through the users' profiles, double-click on the one who seems 'adequate' and, once the new window opens, immediately type "busy?". If he is, he'll either 1) say so, or 2) ignore you. If not, he'll respond with the usual cyber greetings of "whazup?," "hey," or, if you're lucky, "nice profile". If you want to chat by topic, you have your options ... just as you do if you're brave enough to seek chat with someone in or near your location!
GAYCHAT
http://www.gaychat.com/
CRUISINGFORSEX CHAT
http://www.cruisingforsex.com/
JOE CHAT
http://www.joechat.com/
WAY COOL CHAT
http://www.wcool.com/chat/para/menmen.html
(Where guys who meet at GSCR go for private conversation.)
While it's not as user-friendly as others, this room is handy for seeing if the guy who has invited you to have a private chat is worth missing the visual stimulation of GSCR.
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