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 I'm sitting in a quiet room at the Milcroft Inn, a 
   peaceful little place hidden back among the pine trees about 
   an hour out of Toronto.  It's just past noon, late July, and 
   I'm listening to the desperate sounds of a life-or-death 
   struggle going on a few feet away.
        There's a small fly burning out the last of its short 
   life's energies in a futile attempt to fly through the glass 
   of the windowpane.  The whining wings tell the poignant 
   story of the fly's strategy:  Try harder.
        But it's not working.
        The frenzied effort offers no hope for survival. 
   Ironically, the struggle is part of the trap.  It is 
   impossible for the fly to try hard enough to succeed at 
   breaking through the glass.  Nevertheless, this little 
   insect has staked its life on reaching its goal through raw 
   effort and determination.
        This fly is doomed.  It will die there on the 
   windowsill.
        Across the room, ten steps away, the door is open.  Ten 
   seconds of flying time and this small creature could reach 
   the outside world it seeks.  With only a fraction of the 
   effort now being wasted, it could be free of this self- 
   imposed trap.  The breakthrough possibility is there.  It 
   would be so easy.
        Why doesn't the fly try another approach, something 
   dramatically different?  How did it get so locked in on the 
   idea that this particular route and determined effort offer 
   the most promise for success?  What logic is there in 
   continuing until death to seek a breakthrough with more of 
   the same?
        No doubt this approach makes sense to the fly. 
   Regrettably, it's an idea that will kill.
        Trying harder isn't necessarily the solution to 
   achieving more. It may not offer any real promise for 
   getting what you want out of life.  Sometimes, in fact, it's 
   a big part of the problem.
        If you stake your hopes for a breakthrough on trying 
   harder than ever, you may kill your chances for success.

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By Price Pritchett 
from Chicken Soup for the Soul Copyright 1993 by Jack Canfield & Mark Victor Hansen
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A  Slave to His Destiny 

One morning a sixteen-year-old boy was kidnapped from his house
by a band of knife-wielding thugs and taken to another country, there to
be sold as a slave. The year was 401 AD. 

He was made a shepherd. Slaves were not allowed to wear
clothes, so he was often dangerously cold and frequently on the verge of
starvation. He spent months at a time without seeing another human being -- a severe
psychological torture. 

But this greatest of difficulties was transformed into the
greatest of blessings because it gave him an opportunity not many get in a
lifetime. Long lengths of solitude have been used by people all through
history to meditate, to learn to control the mind and to explore the
depths of feeling and thought to a degree impossible in the hubbub of 
normal life. 

He wasn't looking for such an "opportunity," but he got it
anyway. He had never been a religious person, but to hold himself together and
take his mind off the pain, he began to pray, so much that "...in one
day," he wrote later, "I would say as many as a hundred prayers and
after dark nearly as many again...I would wake and pray before daybreak --
through snow, frost, and rain...." 

This young man, at the onset of his manhood, got a 'raw deal.'
But therein lies the lesson. Nobody gets a perfect life. The question is
not "What could I have done if I'd gotten a better life?" but rather
"What can I do with the life I've got?" 

How can you take your personality, your circumstances, your
upbringing, the time and place you live in, and make something
extraordinary out of it? What can you do with what you've got? 

The young slave prayed. He didn't have much else available to
do, so he did what he could with all his might. And after six years of
praying, he heard a voice in his sleep say that his prayers would be
answered: He was going home. He sat bolt upright and the voice said, "Look, your
ship is ready." 

He was a long way from the ocean, but he started walking. After
two hundred miles, he came to the ocean and there was a ship,
preparing to leave for Britain, his homeland. Somehow he got aboard the ship
and went home to reunite with his family. 

But he had changed. The sixteen-year-old boy had become a holy
man. He had visions. He heard the voices of the people from the island he
had left -- Ireland -- calling him back. The voices were persistent, and he
eventually left his family to become ordained as a priest and a bishop
with the intention of returning to Ireland and converting the Irish to
Christianity. 

At the time, the Irish were fierce, illiterate, Iron-Age
people. For over eleven hundred years, the Roman Empire had been spreading its
civilizing influence from Africa to Britain, but Rome never conquered Ireland. 

The people of Ireland warred constantly. They made human
sacrifices of prisoners of war and sacrificed newborns to the gods of the
harvest. They hung the skulls of their enemies on their belts as ornaments. 

Our slave-boy-turned-bishop decided to make these people
literate and peaceful. Braving dangers and obstacles of tremendous
magnitude, he actually succeeded! By the end of his life, Ireland was
Christian. Slavery had ceased entirely. Wars were much less frequent, and literacy
was spreading. 

How did he do it? He began by teaching people to read --
starting with the Bible. Students eventually became teachers and went to other
parts of the island to create new places of learning, and wherever they
went, they brought the know-how to turn sheepskin into paper and paper
into books. 

Copying books became the major religious activity of that
country. The Irish had a long-standing love of words, and it expressed
itself to the full when they became literate. Monks spent their lives copying
books: the Bible, the lives of saints, and the works accumulated by the
Roman culture -- Latin, Greek, and Hebrew books, grammars, the works of
Plato, Aristotle, Virgil, Homer, Greek philosophy, math, geometry, astronomy. 

In fact, because so many books were being copied, they were
saved, because as Ireland was being civilized, the Roman Empire was falling
apart. Libraries disappeared in Europe. Books were no longer copied
(except in the city of Rome itself), and children were no longer taught to
read. The civilization that had been built up over eleven centuries
disintegrated. This was the beginning of the Dark Ages. 

Because our slave-boy-turned-bishop transformed his suffering
into a mission, civilization itself, in the form of literature and the
accumulated knowledge contained in that literature, was saved
and not lost during that time of darkness. He was named a saint, the famous
Saint Patrick. You can read the full and fascinating story if you
like in the excellent book How the Irish Saved Civilization by Thomas Cahill. 

"Very interesting," you might say, "but what does that have to
do with me?" 

Well...you are also in some circumstances or other, and it's
not all peaches and cream, is it? There's some stuff you don't like --
maybe something about your circumstances, perhaps, or maybe some
events that occurred in your childhood. 

But here you are, with that past, with these circumstances,
with the things you consider less than ideal. What are you going to do
with them? If those circumstances have made you uniquely qualified for
some contribution, what would it be? 

You may not know the answer to that question right now, but
keep in mind that the circumstances you think only spell misery may contain
the seeds of something profoundly Good. Assume that's true, and the
assumption will begin to gather evidence until your misery is transformed, as
 Saint Patrick's suffering was, from a raw deal to the perfect
preparation for something better. 

Ask yourself and keep asking, "Given my upbringing and
circumstances, what Good am I especially qualified to do?" 

Adam Khan
Be Yourself

        Ever since I was a little kid, I didn't want to be me. 
   I wanted to be like Billy Widdledon, and Billy Widdledon 
   didn't even like me. I walked like he walked; I talked like 
   he talked; and I signed up for the high school he signed up 
   for.
        Which was why Billy Widdledon changed. He began to hang 
   around Herby Vandeman; he walked like Herby Vandeman; he 
   talked like Herby Vandeman. He mixed me up! I began to walk 
   and talk like Billy Widdledon, who was walking and talking 
   like Herby Vandeman.
        And then it dawned on me that Herby Vandeman walked and 
   talked like Joey Haverlin. And Joey Haverlin walked and 
   talked like Corky Sabinson.
        So here I am walking and talking like Billy Widdledon's 
   imitation of Herby Vandeman's version of Joey Haverlin, 
   trying to walk and talk like Corky Sabinson. And who do you 
   think Corky Sabinson is always walking and talking like? Of 
   all people, Dopey Wellington - that little pest who walks 
   and talks like me!

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By Author Unknown, submitted by Scott Shuman
          from A 2nd Helping of Chicken Soup for the Soul
       Copyright 1995 by Jack Canfield 
and Mark Victor Hansen
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The Home Run

        On June 18th, I went to my little brother's baseball 
   game as I always did.  Cory was 12 years old at the time and 
   had been playing baseball for a couple of years.  When I saw 
   that he was warming up to be next at bat, I decided to head 
   over to the dugout to give him a few pointers.  But when I 
   got there, I simply said, "I love you."
        In return, he asked, "Does this mean you want me to hit 
   a home run?"
        I smiled and said, "Do your best."
        As he walked up to the plate, there was a certain aura 
   about him,  He looked so confident and so sure about what he 
   was going to do.  One swing was all he took and, wouldn't 
   you know, he hit his first home run!  He ran around those 
   bases with such pride - his eyes sparkled and his face was 
   lit up.  But what touched my heart the most was when he 
   walked back over to the dugout.  He looked over at me with 
   the biggest smile I've ever seen and said, "I love you too, 
   Ter."
        I don't remember if his team won or lost that game.  On 
   that special summer day in June, it simply didn't matter.

.
by Terri Vandermark 
from Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul 
Copyright 1997 by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen and Kimberly Kirberger

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