Every man has
at one point wondered "just how do you
approach a
woman?". The only ones who haven't are either:
a) Lyingor
b) Homosexual
Ok, so what are some
secret and
efficient ways in approaching women? Well, I'm here to present to
you the top 6 ways to approach women. And the take away point is to see
all that is possible. First, determined your level by taking the quiz I
mention at the bottom. And then pick one of these approaches.
1) The "Super
Romantic
Approach". It's simple, it's old-fashioned, it works in at least
getting a smile each time, and it's fairly simply. It simply entails
seeing a woman (that really makes your heart beat faster for a
second)... Walking up to her and saying "Excuse me. I noticed you from
over there and I was impressed. I just had to come over and introduce
myself. Hi, my name is...". At this point you would just ask her about
herself and get to know her. After a bit of getting to know her. Who she
is, and what she is about, you would suggest you continue over to some
cafe. That's it!
What happens: If you are even a bit socially
calibrated and comfortable (i.e. not shy or creepy), in 99% of
situations the woman smiles a big smile. After that she will either
thank you and genuinely admit she's incredibly flattered, but she has a
husband, or if she doesn't... she'll usually stick around and chat with
you.
2) The Casual Approach". This one takes a lot
less courage and is more fitted to some men (doing it), or some women
(being receptive towards it). It simply involves commenting something
obvious about the environment you're in. If you're in a bar, you could
comment about the band, or ask a question of how they like the
atmosphere. Something like "Hey, how do you like the band? I love it"...
The crucial thing here is the "friends" mindset. You would continue
chatting as if you had just met one of your acquaintances. Nothing
formal or courting-like. Just being friendly. In a cafe this would look
something like "Man, this coffee has gotten better today, what do you
think?". In general, you could at the end ask them out (formally), or do
the friends thing... which is just invite them casually and as a friend
would to socialize with you and your friends some place (like you would
a new acquaintance)
3) The excuse approach... This one usually
involves coming up with a socially sanctioned excuse for approaching
her, and then transitioning into friendly chat. This is the least risky
of all the approaches, but also the least likely to get a
girl
super-attracted to you (courage is attractive). It's good to begin
with though if you don't have a lot of experience. In this approach you
would approach the woman with any sort of an excuse from asking for the
directions to somewhere, asking for the time, or asking for advice (like
say a woman standing next to you in the clothing store, and asking her
for advice on clothing). You would simply continue chatting to her after
the question. Such as being friendly, asking for her name, or commenting
(complimenting) about something on her.
4) The direct approach... Involves being
straightforward and direct about your intentions. It ussually goes
something like this "Hey, I Like you, What's your name?". You usually
continue by being straightforward and saying something like "well, I
want to get to know you some more, let's continue our chat at this time,
at this place". You are being very direct, and straightforward without
too much apology. This one works really really well if the girl happens
to be single and/or confident, and much less well if she's seeing
someone or is shy.
5) The direct-excuse approach is a combination
of the two above. It usually involves starting the conversation with an
excuse and then fessing up. Something like "Excuse me, can you tell me
what the time is?". When she answers you say something like "Actually, I
have a confession, I just needed an excuse to talk to you, hi, my name
is...". If you have a huge smile while you do all of this, most women
will be charmed and even find it funny. You continue the
conversation as in the super-romantic approach.
Some of these approaches are going to seem better to
try out than other, but I suggest you try them all out, and see which
one "suits" you best. The quiz might also help you determine which one
that will be.
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