Well if you are
attracted to women you know that when it comes to
approaching
them for a date it can be very intimidating. Most guys are terrified
of rejection from a girl they have interest in, especially if you are a
shy person and have little experience when talking to new women. This is
normal, if fact no matter how many women you approach or
date, you will still
have some
fear when approaching women. So don’t let the fear stop you, because
it will always be there, but there are ways to help elevated the fear of
approaching women.
First, you need to know what type of women you like
and where to find her. Do you like athletic women, models, geeks, and
professional women? Well then you will have to go the gym or yoga class
to find an athletic women. Go to the mall or modeling agency to find
very attractive women. Find a bookworm or geeky girls at the library or
bookstore. Go downtown to meet and find professional businesswomen. This
will give you a much better opportunity to find the type of girl you
like and
would be more likely to approach.
A good indication at which
girls to
approach will be the ones that makes you FEEL good. When you see a
women, or she walks past you, and for whatever reason it makes you feel
good, than that is the women you should approach. Don’t bother trying to
approach super-models if you can’t be yourself around them, and they
make you nervous and uncomfortable. You will have much more success when
approaching women that make you feel good, no matter what they look
like. This is also a good way to build your confidence with women.
Now you know where to find women and which ones to
approach. Here are some more tips to help you succeed when approaching
women:
- What exactly do you want from her, do you want a
date, do you want her phone # or email, or maybe you just want to say
“hi”. Know what you want from the situation before you approach women.
- Be a man and don’t act like girly-boy, be strong,
confidant, and take control of the situation. Be funny and act like you
are the best.
- Dress nicely, shave, shower and look your best.
- Just say “hey” don’t worry about pick-up lines,
just be confident in what you say and do.
- Your posture and how you communicate is more
important then what you say. So stand up straight, shoulders back, lean
back, and relax. Talk in a deep voice with confidence and belief in what
you are saying.
- Tell stories and fun things that have happened to
you to get the conversation going. Always have list of fun interesting
stories to tell.
This should give you a good idea of where to start
when it comes to finding and approaching women you like, good luck!
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